My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I hope over time you can remember your Mum as she was before cancer.
I lost my Mum a few months ago to cancer after 4 years of treatments. The memories of her last few weeks are very raw. When were going through some of her things my sisters and I found hundreds of photographs and these brought back lots of memories of our happy childhoods. They've definitely helped us focus on who she really was.
Jan xx
Hi J, I am so sorry to hear about your mum, but the others are right, she will always be there for you and no longer in pain. My thoughts are with you and your family xxx
So sorry to hear about AnneAnne, but you are quite right no more pain for your Mum. I hope that amidst your pain and loss you can get some comfort from the knowledge your Mum is peacefull.
You and your family are in my thought. RIP AnneAnne
I'm really sorry to hear about your Mum. I lost my Dad six months before I was dx and found it sooooo hard. But they are always with you. I often find myself in a difficult or awkward situation and think 'what would my dad have done'. I was closer to my dad and think about him all the time, even though it's now over 4 years since he died.
Loved ones never die. They live in our hearts forever.
Your mum is at peace now but will still be there for you.
Mal
I didn't know your Mum, but please accept my condolences on losing her.
It is our biggest fear and hearing of other people losing that fight reminds me to be thankful I haven't been diagnosed with secondaries and to live my life to the full when I've finished my treatment in memory of people like AneAnne who didn't have that opportunity.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dear J2007
On behalf of the moderation team here at BCC, please accept our sincere condolences on your loss of your dear mum. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Thinking of you,
June, moderator
My mum (AneAnne) passed away on the 7th December after fighting for four years with
secondary breast cancer. Her primary and secondary diagnosis occurred at a similar time.
I will always miss you, not only were you my mum but also my best friend. 58 years old you had so much more to give but it was not meant to be.
No more pain for you. You has a peaceful time in your last few days at our local hospice.
Love J