Hi All
I am 47 years old, primary diagnosis in May 16, secondary June 16, I am HER2 positive I started chemo (docatille, Herceptin and Persumab (not sure how to spell these things) in July, at the last oncologist appointment I was offered a mastectomy, up to this point it was not being offered due to the fact it had spread. Me being me asked “are we not just rearranging the deck chairs on the Titanic”, what is the point. I have been told it will stop the chance of my tumour becoming an open wound. Is it worth the pain of surgery and recovery?
On secondary diagnosis I was told I had years and years to live, when I look at the internet 3/5 seems the average, my oncologists refuse to give any life expectancy. I have a son who is 11, I just don’t want to leave him as a child. How long can I live, I am self employed and scared of giving up work and thinking about cancer 24/7.
Any advise?
Cheers