Hello
I have been sitting on the sidelines reading posts plucking up courage to post…think its all part of the prosess of admiting I belong here just being diagnosed with BC having read posts I now realise I am going to get a lot of support and information from you lovley people.
If its ok I will tellyou my journey so far…
I am 59 years old (big 60 in June) was called for my routine mammogram on Jan 17th…got letter for a recall on Jan 28th went to Hospital hour and half journey away they were very nice had a ultra sound followed by biopsy in boob and needle thing under me arm
next app for 2nd Feb.went back surgeon said I had breast cancer but they needed to do a core biop under my arm.made arrangements for me to go back for this on 8th Feb plus a pre op assesment raedy for a lumpectomy possibly node removal on 14th Feb…understood I would have a wire inserted in my boob to pin point the lump before removal.I was ok about this thinking ok if thats what they gotta do go with it also told I would have radio thing after.
went back for result of arm biop on friday 11th told it was ok.boy was I pleased thinking good come monday they gonna remove lump couple of arm nodes I be on me way…oh no
Dr said goodbye see you monday and went out room nurse who was with me said .umm sit tight I need a word with him…off she goes few mins later he comes back and says …sorry Mrs S I forgot its not what I told you…turns out its Lobuler not what he told me …means I have to have MIR scan (booked for monday) dextra bone scan and he put me on tablets.Femara.saying I will go back to hot flushes .night sweats etc etc(thanks lol)
At this point I lost the plot the tears flowed until then I had been so strong thinking I can do this was like they told me op on the Monday got all sorted .he handed me the ice cream and as I took the first Lick he snatched it away.
I know he is doing what is best for me but omg the waiting is so hard
dont want to sound a winger but I also have other health probs Rhumitoid Arthritus… had to stop taking med for that ie methatriaxte injections and Humeria injections means I can hardly walk now and hands not working well
Lost me mum to BC in 2004 all playing on me mind
Love and Hugs to you all
Ju xxxxxx