Hi Toni3t and welcome to the BCC forums
In addition to the support and shared experiences from your fellow users, please feel free to call our helpline. Lines are open 9-5 weekdays and 10-2 Saturdays on 0808 800 6000 and our team are here to support you through this difficult time. They can also offer you further support ideas from BCC including our 'One to one support service', here you are able to talk via telephone or email to someone who may have had similar issues to you, you can read more about BCC support via the following links:
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/breast-cancer-services
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/diagnosis?utm_source=Homepage&%3Butm_medium=help_you&%3Butm_campaign=diagnosis
You may also find our 'Reconstruction' publication of interest and here's the link:
http://www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/treatment-side-effects/breast-reconstruction-bcc7
Take care
Lucy