Hi Kelly, one thing to remember is stress will not take you anywhere but only add misery. Its difficult initially with the chemo and childern but stay strong. Hope things will be better in the days to come
So sorry to see you find yourself here. The early days of diagnosis are so stressful as it's such a shock, so what you're feeling is quite normal.
Things do settle down when you get your treatment plan & start treatment to get the b*****r dealt with.
Do use this site for information & support & there is specific info on supporting children through this.
Also, go along to the 'newly diagnosed' thread if you haven't already, as it is busier & there are others there going through what you are, as well as those of us further down the road.
We've all gone through this stage, when it feels so all consuming, it can help to take it all a stage at a time & try not to think beyond the next appointment.