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October 2016 starters

fairycake2
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Re: October 2016 starters

Day 5 and I feel sick, as though i don't want to move, because it will make me feel worse. Also constant burping! Presumably all normal? Someone tell me this will pass soon. Horrible to feel so pathetic.

swampy1901
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Day 20 and I'm back from weekend away at my sisters. Had a very chilled time - walks in the park with the youngest great nephew and niece to feed the ducks. Pottered around some garden centres and actually did some Christmas Shopping!! Everyone has said do something nice when you can - and I can fully recommend it!! 

I wore my wig for my sister and her husband and they were surprised at how like my own hair it is - but it did give me a boost to think that if my hair does go awol then it won't be so bad! My hair is shedding and my head is a mixture of itching and fizzing along with a headache so it remains to be seen if cold capping is successful but back on Tuesday for chemo 2!! Must get my bag ready!!

District nurses are in tomorrow for the full monty - PICC line flush, blood tests and dressing changes - once they have been and hubby is home from work we'll do a food shop and hunker down for the next recovery period!!

It took me a while to catch up with everyones threads - you have been busy this weekend!!

Lisa46
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

I had first FEC 20th Oct and went with the cold cap. I was in bed for 24 hours with flu symptoms plus sickness. I'm hoping to get some advice at my Oncology appointment on Friday about easing the sickness with my 2nd session. I know flu symptoms can be an effect but I want to ask if i'm to expect this again next time. Regarding the hair, nothing has happened yet, it's day 10. Thank you ladies.
Angywd
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Thank you everyone for your lovely comments!  I'm amazed at how good it looks so wanted to share it with everyone as I know we are all a bit dubious about wigs....  I got mine from a hairdressers near me called Huttons in Ferndown Dorset but I'm sure other places will sell the Racquel Welch range.  Having been looking decidedly ropey for the last few weeks it was so nice to look like me again!  

Hope you all have had a good weekend.

Sending love & hugs πŸ’ž

Angie

Gracie
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Wow, Angie, you look brilliant - positively radiant. I'm at the wig place tomorrow and I hope I come out with something as good as this.

 

Fairycake, so pleased you managed to get out and have such a lovely time. We have to take these pleasures when we can take them, I feel.

 

Thank you for your support and all the info Sue (Sus12). I have found a Look Good Feel Good venue close to home and I'll be booking my place just as soon as things start falling out. I have a drawer full of scarves, some going back 20 years or so. I did a bit of tidying up a while back and very nearly chucked them all out. Something stopped me and I'm so glad I still have them all. I think there is something in there for just about every occasion. I've been watching Youtube videos to see how to get the look.

 

And for everyone who still has to do the wig shopping, please do make sure you get your code from the NHS to get the discount. In my area, it is worth Β£120, so almost the full price of a reasonable wig.

 

Sue H.S. - the nausea started when I was walking to the car from the infusion suite and I have had it continually since then. I hate to think what I would have been like without the steroids etc but, to be honest, it hasn't been great with them. It's doable in the morning, but gets worse as the day progresses and is pretty awful if I move about a lot. Yesterday was pretty grim. This is exactly how it was for me during my pregnancies from almost the moment of conception to immediately after I had given birth. The only difference is that I wasn't prepared to take anything for it when pregnant, but I am hoping the doctors have something else in their medicine cabinet they can give me now. I'll be on the phone to them tomorrow morning. It's going to be a very depressing few months if I have to feel like this throughout it (although I appreciate others have much worse things to deal with, so I hope I don't give offence saying that).

 

I also had a bit of a drama yesterday in that I managed to break a back tooth on some seeded bread. A bit of the side has sheared off exposing the mercury filling. Aaaaggghhh! I'm hoping the dentist will be able to patch it up so that it lasts until I can get it done properly. I'll have to speak to the hospital about that tomorrow too.

 

Love and strength to you all.

 

Gracie xx

 

 

livvy
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

You look fab Angie you would never know its a wig! Xx
blueash
Community Champion

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Wow - if that was me I would never want my own hair compared to that! You look fabulous xxx

fairycake2
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

You look great, it really suits you. 

suebond88
Member

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Looking Fabulous Angie, if I saw you in the street/restaurant/anywhere I would have not known that you were wearing a wig ☺️

Can I ask where you got it from?

SueBxxx

Truey
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Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Angwyd,

You look fantastic! An inspiration for those who are feeling apprehensive about wig wearing. Wigs are so good these days.....I realised mine was OK when the nurse doing my pre-cycle 2 blood test asked whether my hair had started coming out yet.....I was bald by the end of cycle 1!!!

Anyone just starting the wig journey, make sure you get your NHS contribution. The wig specialist I was recommended in Buckinghamshire has an arrangement with the NHS and the contribution (about Β£68 from memory) was automatically deducted from the cost of my chosen wig.

Sue x

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Angywd,

are you sure you have a wig on??? It looks fantastic!

Hugs

Sue xx

 

Angywd
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi everyone,

Had an odd good day yesterday so went wig shopping.  Have been stuck in my house or in hospital for the last 4 weeks as I have had constant infections since surgery.  Next chemo is looming on Friday but I am better prepared for it now knowing how I am going to feel for the week after it, just hoping no more infections!  I am so happy with the wig, had a few tears trying on some that just didn't work for me before coming across this one from the Racquel Welch range.... Thank you sue-HS for the link to the look good feel good I have now booked into the next one at my local hospital.  

Hugs

Angie

xxxx

 

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suebond88
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Re: October 2016 starters

Good Morning everyone,

Fairycake2 - so pleased you made it to the theatre.  I really believe that if we're able, and well  enough, we should do what we can. So glad you enjoyed it.  David Bowie - a legend.

i also had a giggle to myself re the eyebrow drawing Maryminder,  I wear glasses (varifocal), and have been filling in my eyebrows and tinting them for years.  I found that a x10 magnifying mirror works for me, held up close to my face.  Not a pretty sight, but it works!  Will be keen to hear how the drop down glasses work.

we did go out for lunch yesterday with friends - coped well, but did find myself listening out for coughs and sneezes!

good luck and hugs to everyone with treatment and scans etc. this coming week.

SueBxxx

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi fairycake2

Brilliant! So pleased to read that you were able to get out for that treat.

Yes, it is quite normal, that when of steroids, we feel a little worse. Just keep on with eating little snacks of biscuits or toast on a very regular basis. I did this about every 2 hours and it did help to keep my stomach in check. It it very likely to help with nausea. And,of course, keep up with the fluid intake! 

Hugs

Sue xx

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi ladies,

for those of you, who would like to use Private Messaging - perhaps to support each other with some things, which are easier to chat about 'off forum' or to exchange details of a more personally identifying nature - this links should help you knowing of how to set up private messaging. This is of course, for those, who have, as yet, not discovered the feature

https://forum.breastcancercare.org.uk/t5/Struggling-to-get-started/Private-groups-and-private-messag...

Please always remember - this forum is in the public domain, so we should not share details, which could identify us in 'real life' - i.e. e-mail addresses, Facebook names, full names, doctors names, etc.

Hugs

Sue xx

 

Sus12
Member

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So glad you had a great time Fairycake :).
Agree...take these moments when we can πŸ™‚
Sue xx
fairycake2
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Well I made it into London: train, tube, restaurant, theatre. Kept feeling a bit nauseous but coped all right. I think now the steroids have finished i feel sicker.

BUT the play was amazing, very weird (Bowie's last musical, called Lazarus). So definitely worth it - we've got to take these moments when we can. 

Azara25
Member

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Feeling pleased with myself .... Went to local pub with hubby for an hour WITH MY WIG ON !!!  No one seemed to notice but luckily I didn't see anyone I knew, even so it's given me confidence to do it again. Next chemo is Monday so don't suppose I will be going out again for a while.

We can do this ladies - if you recall yesterday I was sat gently pulling my hair out so what a difference 24 hours makes xxx

nb dread drawing on my eyebrows thank goodness they are still there at the moment ! 

livvy
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi maryminder,
I so get where your coming from about going out the first time wearing your wig or scarfs,my hairs almost completely gone but I haven't been out yet 😐 I loved my wig when I first got it but now I have to wear it I'm not so sure! I know Il have to get this over with at some point and deal with it like big girl! But its soooo hard.I did giggle at your eyebrow scenario ive been drawing mine on for years as mine are barely there anyhow lol and I still struggle to get it right! I hope your scan is absolutely normal and nothing to worry about even though I know you are! Sending positive vibes your way good luck! And big hugs too everyone else!XX
maryminder
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Ladies,

Decided to have a go at my creating new eyebrows today, only problem is my glasses get in the way and I am as blind as a bat without them, the end result was quite hilarious, so have bought a pair of those magnifying drop down glasses on ebay to see if that  helps :Smiley Happy

 

I have already had my hair cut short and noticed today (day 11) that it is now going, I can get around having odd boobs because it is hidden, but my hair gone completley i'm not so sure, I have a wig, scarves and hats but not sure how I will feel stepping out for the first time.

 

Sue H-S you are so right re emotions, people's natural instinct is to try and make you feel better but

 to have someone agree with you when you are saying it sucks and life is crap does help.

 

Next Thursday I have the scan on my Thyroid, a nodule  was picked up on the body scan following my surgery, am trying to tell myself that it's nothing to worry about but it is difficult.

 

Still ending on a positive note The Seagulls won today so hubby is happy.

 

Love and Hugs to all

 

Mary xx

 

 

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Gracie,

Thank you for the compliment - and not so much of the 'old bird'  please, lol.Smiley Tongue

If you are suffering from sickness now, presuming you have also just come of your steroids - and the 'cocktail' you are already taking - they will need to adjust your accompanying anti-sickness meds again.

Have you tried eating little and often? Ginger biscuits - water biscuits?

If you like ginger, it might also be worth popping onto Holland and Barratt or look on line for Rochester Original Ginger Drink - It is a sipping ginger with quite some kick. So it would cut through your tast chalenges at the moment. It is nearly like taking a sip of whisley, lol. However ginger is supposed to help quite a lot.

If you do go down that route - try 1/2 shot glass in the morning and see whether it helps.

Never be sure you won't rock the 'bald' look - a bit of careful make up does make a huge difference.

On the other hand - if you scroll down the page of this link to a post from Belle - fabulous looks with scarves - https://forum.breastcancercare.org.uk/t5/Top-tips-and-practical-support/Chemotherapy-Tips-and-Tricks...

Hope youare starting to feel better real soon.

Hugs

Sue xx

 

 

Sus12
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Gracie
I bet you will rock the baldie look! And we're lucky as ladies as we have makeup to help :). There are lots of organisations who can help like 'Look Good Feel Better' who have special days, booklets and a DVD to help make the most of yourself and to give you confidence. Make time to look them up and give yourself time for you. We need it right now. Also we can play around with different dangly earrings, scarves, hats, wigs. I know it's not easy of course it isn't. I'm not finding it at all easy and I'm only at the end of week 1 but we can have confidence knowing that we are beautiful whatever age we are. Some people are more confident than others and are ok with rocking the bald look. For those of us who aren't, try not to worry about what other people may or may not think. Just remember how loved you are and important to the people in your life who matter. They will still love you and still think you are beautiful and also want you to be free of breast cancer (as you do!) so if it takes a while to regrow your hair etc then that's OK. It will all come back and you'll be a stronger person.
As lots of people have said, this is tough, maybe one of the toughest things any of us will go through but we can do it.
Big hugs to all and hope everything goes OK for people in the coming week.
Sue xx
Gracie
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Hi Ladies,

Most of you seem to be so far ahead of me. I'm on day 4 of chemo. I smelt and tasted the E&C when it went in and I just knew I would suffer badly from sickness. And I am doing, in spite of the Ondansetron, Dexamethasone & Domperidone. Everything tastes horrible already. I felt like this thought my pregnancies, when I felt like I had been poisoned. This time I have!

 

For those of you yet to start, the chemo session itself is fine - much better than I had feared. Everyone was so lovely and kind. I have a port, which no doubt helped a great deal, and I'm not cold capping. I'm on an accelerated programme - 4 lots of EC at fortnightly intervals and 4 lots of taxol at fortnightly intervals. It's going to come out whatever I do. It's the least of my worries, to be honest.

 

But I'm a bit of an old bird - a touch younger than you, Sue :). But you rock that baldie look and you don't look anywhere near your age. I'm not going to be able to carry it off like you do.

 

Anyway, onwards and upwards. Love and strength to you al.

Gracie xx

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi all,

Skye is so right, when she says others, who have not had a cancer diagnosis and chemo, do not really understand. Unfortunately this is something you are likely to come across for the next few months. This is why this forum is so important, as we can communicate with others, who are or have been in that situation.

Whatever your worries, please feel free to share - feel free to moan, cry and be angry - these emotions have to come out, even if it is only in putting them on the forum. I know a real hug is not the same as a virtual one, but it helps to know that you are not on your own and others understand your feelings and frustrations.

I do feel for all of you, who are currently getting your hair cut very short or shaved or at the stage, where it departs for a while. The only comfort I can give is, that getting it shaved or extremely short, is likely to save you from a sore scapl or headaches, when the time comes for it to go. It can be heartbreaking to get used to the way we look with very short or no hair. One of the advantages is that it then shows off oour true facial features - we may love them or hate them. The most noticable thing will be your eyes. So many people commment on that.

It is also right, that we all have our fears of the cancer being elsewhere. Any ache or pain may make us panic and dark thoughts may invade out minds and those dark hours, when we lie awake in our beds and cannot sleep.

I am not sure - but this thought might be of help. As I am now through my active treatment and am, of course, at risk for the cancer coming back, i.e. secondary cancer - the guide is that if you have a pain, which lasts for over 2 weeks and does not go away using painkillers - then one needs to get it checked out. But of course I understand, that until all initial scans are done and the results knows - one does worry and that worry makes things just so much more challenging.

Hoping you all have a good weekend. Rest and be kind to yourself - you deserve it.

Hugs

Sue xx 

suebond88
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Morning everyone,

 

Skye, I agree with assaritti,  the fear and worry of your first Chemo is worse than the actual event.  And for me the worst bit was the first 20 minutes of the cold cap, after that it was a smooth ride.  It is the first few days afterwards that you will feel at your worst and the se's kick in.

you girls starting to loose your hair - I'm in the zone now too, but as yet have only noticed my eyebrows itching and a runny nose as I think my nostril hair is disappearing.  I did cold cap so am hoping that it will help with my head hair, but I do keep checking it my gently tugging (can't help it) which I'm sure doesn't help.

we can get through this...

hugs to all

 

SueBxxx

 

assaritti45
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Skye, chemo is a breeze, it dont hurt, time goes fast when its being done, dont worry about that, the fear is worse then having it done, the hard part is around 4 days after. you will be given drugs to take home for sickness etc just make sure you take them.

 

i wake up at 6 every day now even when i go to bed late i wake up same time 😞

 

my back is sore today and was not yesterday but i didnt feel this lump 😞 i will make sure someone else can lol.

 

I have had my wig now for 3 weeks its a nice wig i also have hats and scarfs but its just not the same is it. wig makes you feel very hot too.

 

good luck monday you will be fine honest xxx

 

Skye
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Morning Assaritti45

 

Ivebeen awake since 5am - dreadful when you can't sleep. 

 

Its understandable that that you're worried that the cancer has spread - I think that's something we all do - even secretly. I'm sure you'll feel much better when you have your results. 

 

Im starting first Chemo on Monday - dreading it, but anxious to start at the same time. Does that make sense? I tried on wigs for the first time in Thursday and ended up in tears. I think I'll not look in the mirror when Im getting my head shaved - but I'm going to start wearing the wig cap about the house to try and de-sensitive mys of. Don't know if it will work, but it's worth a try! πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

 

Only other cancer patients understand your fears and worries - even though friends come out with platitudes - they don't really understand. It's a relief to find a quiet space and cry your eyes out from time to time. I know it helps me a lot. 

 

Good luck for your appt on Monday and your bone scan. 

 

Big hugs to us all. 

 

 

 

Skye xxx

 

assaritti45
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HI Ladies

 

My hair too is coming out in handfuls, my scalp is getting sore now like pins and needles. My hair is about 10 inches long and its heartbreaking seeing a handful of hair in my hand. I will be having it cue very short today as Its heartbreaking seeing it. i know it will all come out and each time i see it i am in tears, so time to cover mirrors and get rid of it all.

 

I have oncolegy appointment monday and get results of bone scan and full body, i am so worried i have cancer somewhere else and today not sure if i am imagining it but feels like i have a lump in my spine 😞

 

I hate having cancer as now look at every tiny little sympton as bad 😞  Next chemo is wednesday and dreading it. 😞

 

hugs ladies every ones keeps saying we can do it and we can we have no choice but i also think we all have a right to feel sorry for ourselfs. our loved ones can try and pick us up but its only us that can, time to get the big girl pants out and carry on xxx

Azara25
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Me too - hair coming out in handfuls if I gently pull it which is developing into a bad habit I just can't seem to leave it alone when I am sat watching the tv in the evening - hubby is in kitchen so have just told him he needs to come & sit down as that will stop me !

I'm on day 18 of first cycle & if I could leave it alone it would probably stay another few days but what's the point of that when next chemo is on Monday & it will come out then for sure anyway. I find it easier to control pulling it out easily myself rather than Hoover it off the pillow or clog the shower up - is it just me ladies ? ( before you say shave it off it doesn't itch or irritate & I couldn't bear to as it is now in a short bob I hate after having about 6/8 inches cut off it since diagnosis).

I've also had a PICC line fitted today for anyone considering it - procedure was painless & so far so good. 

Hope everyone is doing ok 

xxx

livvy
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi everyone,
I hope everyone's ok & doing as well as can be expected I'm 16 days post chemo and my hair is coming out in handfuls! Although I was expecting it its still a shock! I'm also having major hot flushes! To the point where it looks like ive just stepped out of the shower, so I'm feeling sorry for myself today I'm a hot sweaty bald mess! Il be glad when we all get through this and we can look back on it and think WOW! We did it!!! We are all so brave! Stay strong ladies!πŸ’ͺπŸ˜‰ XXXXX
Sus12
Member

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Hi Fairycake.
I agree with Sue B and Sue H-S go while you can . I've just come back from my oncologist today and they've done my blood count (I'm on day 😎 and he was explains about days 7 to 10 being usually at your lowest blood count wise but then he also said that that can dip further sometimes along the cycles so if it was me I'd go now as you don't know what you'll be up to later on.
I've been so worried and anxious about my CT scan results but at long last after these last few months some good news - it was clear. I just cried and then felt totally stupid for crying! πŸ˜•
What a real roller coaster all this is.
Love and hugs to everyone for the weekend. Hope you all get out to do something nice for you in the sunshine πŸ™‚
Sue xx
suebond88
Member

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Fairycake2 - if you feel like I'd go for it πŸ‘ Enjoy it while you can.  I might be wrong, but I think the mid cycle bloods they take (10days), is to check what level your bloods have fallen to.....but ultimately it's up to you and your husband.

thank you Sue HS for your advise re my felt hat😊  I sent a selfie to my daughter (in Oz), and she also told me to go for it if I liked it, so I willπŸ‘

Tummy and nausea not so turbulent today so think new meds are kicking in πŸ™‚

Hugs to all

sueBxxx

 

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi fairycare2

As it was your first chemo- and you may likely be on steroids still by tomorrow - I personally would go for it.

But it has to be your decison. Yes the white blood cell count is now on its way down. The 'nadir', when all it is at its lowest in a specific cycle - is around day 7-10 post treatment.

Further down your cycles such pleasures may not be so advisable, as our blood counts do not recover fully through each cycle - so our immune system becomes increasinly fragile throughout.

Hugs

Sue xx 

fairycake2
Member

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Hi everyone, I had my first session of EC yesterday and actually really felt OK afterwards! Ate a couple of fairly small meals prepared by lovely daughter, no nausea as yet. Even went for a walk. So far, so good. 

I want to run this by you: my husband bought tickets for us to go and see Lazarus(the musical written by Bowie before he died), months ago, back when I was still a normal person. It's in London so will mean a train, a tube, a restaurant and then sitting in the theatre -I'm nervous about infection, but the nurses says my white cell count will be low in a week, and not yet. Is it worth the risk, do you think? It's on tomorrow.

 

 

 

 

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi subond88,

Thank you for your kind words - I look more confident that I was - trust me, lol. I just got so fed up with the scarves and wig - although my wig is rather nice.

No, I never cold capped - I absolutely hate the cold. It was better for me to use my energy in other ways than having to deal with the cold cap.

Great about the felt hat, made me smile - you like it - you wear it!!!

At tis time it is about you and only you - it does not matter what others think. We spend so much of our lives doing things for others and always taking their thoughts and feelings into account. This is the time where we matter - more than anything else around us.

Hugs

Sue xx

suebond88
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi everyone,

would just like to echo the other girls and say how fabulous and confident you look, Sue HS.  Hope I can pull it off with the same panache when and if my time comesπŸ‘  Did you cold cap?  We're also a similar  age - I'm 58, 59 next year.  Went and bought a felt hat today - thought it looked great in the shop, got home and my husband almost laughed!!  I still like it.  May take a selfie and send it to my daughter☺️

Managed to get some new antiemetics - have now got Ondansetron (which apparently works differently to the metoclopramide I was taking - thank you Flopsie), my nurse told me that it was also probably responsible for the bloating, tummy aches and constant burping I was experiencing.  Have had midcylce bloods taken.  My nurse has also said that she will request a change in my Cycle 2 antiemetic.  Result πŸ‘

maryminder
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi all,

I too have a chest expander and have been experiencing pain, still wearing a bra at night but a softer pull on one, have tried massaging while watching TV (thankfully just me and hubby at home) and as you say paracetemol.

Day 10 today and for the first time actually feel slightly human again, although chemo brain is never far away, hair is thinning on top but still looking ok, will practice with hats and scarves at the weekend.

Sue H-S you look amazing and so confident 

Hugs and best Wishes Mary xx

Sarah04
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi mumofmany

I have had breast pain after all 3 chemos so far. It tends to start on day 3 or 4 and lasts a good few days. I also get pain in the arm I had the nodes taken from. I have mentioned it to the nurse and she said mine is chemo related. One of the side effects unfortunately. I do have an expander in so that probably doesn't help either.
Like Sue, I tend to take Paracetamol and it does help ease it. It won't hurt to phone the nurses though.
Sarah x
Mumofmany
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Thanks sue il give them a call x
Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Mumofmany,

Sorry to hear you are so very tired. That can happen. My sleep patterns completely dissapeared through chemo. And some of the tiredness is also the fatigue,which cannot be addressed by sleeping, which can make things worse. Try and rest as much as you can - and the odd walk out in the fresh air might also help.

The breast pain, may in part, be due to the chemo. Chemo affects all fast growing cells in our body - and that would also be affecting the healing of an operation site. I certainly had some, too - and managed it, as best as I could, with paracetomol.

However, it may be an idea to call your breast care nurse or chemo nurse and ask for their suggestions.

Hope it improves.

Hugs

Sue xx 

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi,

Thank you for the compliments - I'll be 58 by next time this week, lol! They really are much appreciated.

I hope it does show that a little make up goes a long way. And that there is hope for post chemo.

Although I did not go to one of these - some of you may wish to see whether there is a local course available. It is a great day, where beauty professonals help you understand and to work with make up - and you get a goody bag to take away with you, too. The bits in it are worth about Β£200!

http://www.lookgoodfeelbetter.co.uk/

A session can be a great moral booster, especially if you are struggling with hair los and confidence.

Hugs

Sue xx

 

Mumofmany
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

I'm so tired too not sleeping very well not lost any hair anywhere yet except down below for some reason it's this breast pain that's my problem today x
Angywd
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Chemo brain, just seen that you are on day 17!! X
Angywd
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi mumofmany

what day of your first cycle of are you on? I cold capped too and am on day 13 and I already look unrecognisable!  Like you my hair is wild although not falling out and I look so poorly, too tired for make up today!

Love

Angie

xx

Mumofmany
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Sue you look fantastic I used cold cap and not had hair loss yet but my hair is wild and out of control x
Mumofmany
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi everyone I'm on day 17 after first chemo I had quarter of my breast removed on 24august to remove 3tumours today iv women up with lots of twinging in my breast around the removal site and it's tender to touch could this be chemo related iv not had any pain before .
elisan
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

You look great Sue. 

Liz x

elisan
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Thanks for the advice about the PICC line Sue. 

I too have been to chat about a wig and going back next week, also plan on looking today at scarves and hats.  I too have been looking out my dangly earrings some from way back, I knew there was a reason I had kept them lol. 

Feel okay so far but aware this probably won't last.

I met a young girl yesterday who was having her 5th cycle of chemo and as so excited about next one being her last. I was so happy for her. Hopefully we will all be there soon.

we can do this.

Liz x

Sue H-S
Community Champion

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi ladies,

I am so sorry to read that some of you are struggling so much.

As some have said - speak up sooner, rather than later, so your medications can be adjusted - if your side effects are really troublesome.It is important that you discuss your side effects with yur treatment team on a regular basis, to give them the opportunity to adjust your accompanying medications.

Yes, sometimes it is a bit trial and error - and it is unavoidable as we are all so very individual.

Steroids, although sometimes causing issues, are very important with our chemo treatments, as they stop our bodies from rejecting the chemo drugs.Without them we would be so much worse in the first few days post treatment and may even have severe allergic reactions, whilst receiving our treatment.

I understand how distressing it is to lose the hair. I had long hair, too. Bur now, 8 weeks post last chemo treatment, it is growing back with much vigor!

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Post chemo 5                8 weeks post last chemo

 

Hugs

Sue xx

 

swampy1901
Member

Re: October 2016 starters

Hi Assariti

Sorry to hear you are having such an awful time - but hopefully you are due to see your oncologist soon in preparation for your next chemo session. I had this earlier this week and my oncologist spent most of his time going through my diary saying that's a side effect usually linked to the steroids! It seems the steroids are the bad boys in a lot of what we go through - the chemo effects won't help obviously but he did give me new prescriptions to help next time around. He said better to have things you may need than suffer needlessly because you ae waiting on a prescription.

Day 17 for me and I am cold capping but watching my hair like a hawk and terrified to touch it in case it begins to shed - no idea how I'm going to feel - but I'm away at my sisters this weekend so she'll be there to pick me up off the floor should the worst happen.

Like you I have my wig and a few head bits but I have a session booked at the local hospice for a Headwear session this morning so hopefully I will feel a bit better about the whole head thing later. Our local Hospice has been amazing - they have all sorts of treatments and information sessions - last night we had a two hour session which included a (sitting) Tai Chi session, lots of chat, and they treated us to lovely sarnies, fruit platters, tea, coffee etc. It's so good to chat and compare notes - we are all in the same boat - and at all different stages of treatment but it's the humour of these ladies that is such a boost and the fact they really understand what we are all going through. I hope you have access to something like this - it was my District nurses who put them in touch with me when I was really going through a down patch - so it may be worth asking them if there is anything similar near you.