Hi, again.thank you for all the comments they are so helpful,knowing others are going through similar thing. Family friends say they understand lot don't especially the way cancer affects us mentally the constant worry has it come back,has it spread, is it going to spread.what will I be like in 2.3.4 months, can I book that holiday etc. It all takes its toll on us one way or another and other people's lack of understanding really does not help xxxxxx