Just remember that being shocked, fearful, upset and emotional are just normal reactions to getting a metastatic diagnosis. There is not set way of dealing with this, and your onc will have had others who had a similar reaction.
Try writing down any questions you may have so you can make sure that you get the answers you need. Your hubby can always ask them if necessary. Writing down the responses is also a good idea because it can be really difficult to remember what is said, although at the time you are sure you will remember.
Vicki xxx
