Had my surgery yesterday and it went very well with no complications.
Feel very well today apart from some soreness where the incision was made and the painkillers are taking care of that. I'm absolutely amazed and very happy at how well I feel.
The staff at the hospital were all so nice and I was kept well informed and was very well looked after at all times. The only point at which I felt anxious was when they took me into surgery but they gave me something to relax me very quickly and then anaesthetised me. The next thing I knew I was coming round and feeling like I was waking up from a really good night's sleep.
Now I'm just waiting for the appointment to come through for my results. In the meantime, the plan is to take it easy, avoid daytime TV and catch up on some DVDs and get back into my card making.
Alfiemolly, I agree it is very strange being told you have cancer when you actually feel very well. I'm still feeling very positive and hopeful. I suspect the time that I will start to feel most anxious will be when I'm close to my post-op appointment. My plan for now though is to rest up after my op and do my exercises and just concentrate on my recovery. I know that will be easier said than done but all I can do is try my best.
Mandy, I'm truly sorry you are feeling so bad. All I can suggest is that you make best use of all the help and support that is available to you and I hope you soon start to feel better.
Hi. I too felt and still very calm?! Like MINIG i really am the biggest worrier yet this i have taken on board and need to deal with it!
I get my results from WLE and SNB in 12 dec although have already been told i will be having chemo and then radio!
Hugs to you all x
Sorry you are feeling so bad, but I think it is an experience a lot of us have had. Two days before I went for my after op appointment I was feeling really low, but the comments from people on this site really helped. All I can say is the feelings get better, (and can get worse again!), but we are coping, somehow and with the help of each other. Sending virtual hugs
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Hi, i have recently been diagnosed and like you i felt calm until last few days, i go for and appointment today so they can tell me what treatment they have decided i nee. I now feel like crap i have the vomits and diariah and cannot stop thinking the worst, i am a new granny and keep thinking what if i don't see her grow up. Maybe i will feel better once i ahve been to my appointment but at the moment i am not so sure
Just found out yesterday that I too have breast cancer very much like yourself 2 small lumps. I feel much calmer today but still very scared. Its the waiting more than anything I just want it taken out then I think I will feel better about it all. Its weird being told you have cancer when I dont feel ill. Good luck with your treatment.
Thank you. I'm still feeling very positive and calm but a bit impatient. I just want to get the whole thing over and done with now so that I can get on with living the rest of my life. I guess that's normal though and something that everyone feels.
My family and friends continue to be absolutely amazing and very supportive. It makes me feel good to know that I have people like them in my life and, corny as it sounds, I really do feel blessed.
I'll keep you posted on how it goes. xx
Thanks Minig. It really is good to read such positive comments. It gives me hope and makes me feel fairly confident about the surgery and how I will feel afterwards.
I don't have long to wait now before I have my surgery. I'll have to get up at about 5.30 on the day so that I have plenty of time for coffee and a large glass of water before the 6.30 cut-off time they've given me for drinks. Not looking forward to that as it's a bit on the early side for me but I can have a lie in on Friday to make up for it.
I'll post an update on how it's all gone a day or two after my surgery. xx
sounds like you are coping reasonably well. Its true at times like this it is amazing how friends and family rally round to make sure you are ok and have everything you need. The waiting is awful i agree. I found it the most frustrating thing but theres nothing we can do.
As the other ladies have said you will be surprised how well you will feel after the surgery.
Good luck. Please let us know how you get on.
Will be thinking of you
My diagnosis was just over a week ago now and I am still feeling very calm about the whole thing. I live alone and so have been making sure my house is clean and tidy, my laundry is up to date and I have plenty of meals in the freezer. It feels like I've spent the whole weekend cooking.
I am finding that I'm starting to feel a bit impatient now. I'm going in on Thursday for my lumpectomy but I'm at the stage where I just want to get it over and done with.
A few people have told me that they've felt little or no pain afterwards which is good to know. I have pretty much no pain threshold.
In a strange way, I actually feel very lucky. If I hadn't been for a mammogram, the cancer would not have been diagnosed so early. Because it has, it should be reasonably quick and easy to eliminate.
I hope that your recovery continues to go well and that you get good news when you go back for your post-op check up.
I also live alone and none of my family are local.
One of my big worries was how I would look after myself while going through treatment. As soon as I started telling people about my diagnosis, so many came forward to offer help and support. My brother is driving 60 miles to pick me up from the hospital and staying overnight on the day of the surgery to make sure I'm ok. Once he goes home, I have several friends who live reasonably close by that I can call on if I need anything. They are all within ten minutes away by car and some are within walking distance.
I feel blessed to know that I have so many people looking out for me. The few weeks following my surgery and through my radiotherapy are going to be tough, I know that. But I also know that with a positive attitude, the care and attention from the hospital staff and the support from my family and friends I will get through this and come out smiling at the other end,
I have had a couple of low moments since I was diagosed but thankfully nothing too serious. I just keep reminding myself that I am incredibly lucky in that it was diagnosed at a very early stage and is easily treatable.
Like you, when I got my diagnosis, I started thinking about the practicalities and came up with a plan. At the moment, the plan is working and everything is going smoothly. My surgery is scheduled for Thursday next week so I'm working up to and including Wednesday. I suspect it will really hit me on Wednesday evening when I start packing my bag ready for the following day. Until then, I'm going to keep myself busy, stick to the plan and keep reminding myself that things could be a lot worse.
I was incredibly calm when I recieved my diagnosis! It was a shock but I just wanted to be strong and remain in control. I got my family together and we developed "a plan". This was to cover how I could work for a couple more weeks before the scheduled surgery. I sorted out pre planned holidays and made sure everyone who needed to know was informed. I think I just went into practicalities mode. Then 2 days later the BCN informed me the surgery had been brought forward to the following week. Thats when it hit me! I broke down and had a good old cry! My plan no longer applied! I had to let go and let the professionals take over my life. I didnt go back to work after that!
I am halfway through my chemotherapy now and feel happy with my progress...mentally and physically. I have had tears and felt low. But afterwards i think of all the good things in my life and feel "normal" again.
I think if you are positive and try to carry on as normally as you can it helps. Not only you but your family and friends will pick up on your positivity.
So yes its ok to feel calm but also do expect that it will hit you soon.
Good luck Karen
Be positive and keep smiling
I was called for a mammogram for the first time a few weeks ago, two months after my 52nd birthday. If I'm honest, I very nearly didn't go. I'd heard that it was a very uncomfortable and often painful experience. A colleague of mine persuaded me to go and I'm so glad she did.
I'm also glad I found this forum. While I feel calm at the moment, I'm expecting the next few months to be an emotional rollercoaster. In the meantime, I'm just carrying on as normal and keeping myself busy.
I am in a very similar situtation. Was called for breast screening and was shocked to be invited back for second stage. They had found an area of calcification, and I had to have a biopsy. i tried not to let it bother me, keeping calm, expecting it to be nothing. My first results were unclear so I had to have another biopsy. Again, i felt quite calm, even though it was all I could think about, day and night. Results told me I had DCIS and a bit of invasive cancer - this bit did shock me. Last week I had a lumpectomy and sentinel node biopsy and feel fine at the moment. I am in no pain. I will get the results of this next week. I am hoping it will be clear and I will just need radiotherapy for 3 weeks. In the main I have kept calm, just wanting to get on with the treatment. There have been a few tears, but no major meltdowns. I was called for mammogram just before my 48th birthday. I realise I am very lucky because it was caught so early. Had I not been called until I was 50 ... It still feels strange to say "I have breast cancer". I have been reading lots of stories on this forum, to help me with my queries. And will continue to do so. So many ladies are going through different treatments and coping in different ways. I don't wish cancer on anyone, but I am so grateful for this forum.
Good luck in your treatment.
I was diagnosed last week.
When I received the letter inviting me in for second stage screening, I was so worried. I'd just had my first mammogram and hadn't been having any problems or felt anything unusual so it came as a shock. I went for the screening where they confirmed that there is a small lump and took a sample for biopsy. After that, my mind went into overdrive and I started imagining the worst.
When I was given the result a week later and was told that the lump was cancerous, I actually felt very calm. The staff were so nice and explained my options to me. Thankfully the lump is only very small and so the chances are that I'll only need to have a lumpectomy followed by radiotherapy.
By the time I left the hospital, I had a diagnosis, a date for my surgery and a rough timescale for the radiotherapy and my recovery.
If I had never gone for my mammogram, the lump probably wouldn't have been discovered until it was a lot bigger and more difficult to treat. And I think that's why I feel so calm now. I know that it could have been much, much worse.
Has anyone else experienced similar reactions and feelings when they've been diagnosed?