Hi Ness
So glad you 'found us'-this site was my saving grace when I was DX (diagnosed) in Oct 09. I was almost same as you. Found one fairly large-to me anyway- so went for tests etc. Initial plan was lumpectomy. By time all tests etc done, I was told I had multi-focal too so had right MX (mastectomy). I was ES pos and grade 2.
I needed no other treatment than Tamoxifen, so doing good now and just waiting to get a wee uplift and nipple tattoo on reconstruced boob
Its amazing to look back, especily to read of someone at the start of this rollercoaster trip. Theres so much support here and on helpline so I hope you find that, once you get going on treatment, youll feel on top of the mega changes to your life.
Best Wishes
Cathie x