Hi Bimble,
Sorry you have to go down the Mx route. if you look under the "living with breast cancer" title to the left, you will find a section called "reconstructive surgery". There's quite a bit on there.
Failing that, you could ring the helpline and ask them to put you in touch with some of their volunteers. Or, try googling "keeping abreast". I phoned their chairperson, and she was really friendly and very helpful.
Hugs,
Margaret