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Marye123
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Re: Retiring on ill health grounds

Hi I am going through the process, with my employer, I made the decision after. Cutting hours and still not coping. It's the thought of giving in however I now realise I'm being selfless and giving my self time to recover rest, and look At more recovery options, the struggle to keep going was having an adverse affect stress letting people down etc now I can rest when. Needed and research more choices hope this helps Mary
stresshead
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Carolsav, i too was finished from work on ill health but on very good terms...they did everything they could to help me both through primary and secondary. I had worked there for 15 years and was a little sad to go but becase i had been away for so long it wasnt really a wrench. I still see some of my work colleagues who are really freinds, so thats nice. Towards the end i didnt feel as though i 'belonged' any more so knew it was time to go. To be honest its one less thing to stress about. The ony problem is the loss of money but if you are ok on that score just enjoy your new status as much as possible. xx

carolsav
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Hi. I have just been accepted for ihr. I worked for first 2 years after diagnosis....mets to bones and lung....but in april had spread to liver and thought it was time to leave. But its a hard decision. Im only 54 and have worked for same place for 36 years. I feel sad my career has ended like this and have very mixed emotions as i loved my work and colleagues. But with treatments and side effects etc it just wasnt viable to continue. But everyones diffreent.
bernadetteh
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Hi Moijan, I've just seen your post today. Im still at work and looking at redeployment. My job is just so stressful and short staffed and I dont believe its helping my physical health. I constanly have a cold, sore throat and cough. I decieded rather than take early retiremnt to try redeployment instead. Thanks for your support x

Waffles
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Hi everyone,
I think it all depends how well you are, what sort of job you have , whether you enjoy workng and what you would do instead. I love my job, it is intellectually challenging but not heavy physically and I work beside people whose company I really enjoy. If I wasn't working I'd have to find other things to do instead as I think sitting at home on my own all day would put me on a downward spiral. I don't want to spend my children's (admittedly small)inheritance on going on holidays as I'm not much of a traveller anyway. I'm going to keep working until I'm no longer able.Best wishes xxx
sarah66
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I took I'll health retirement from NHS as a mental health nurse after nearly 27 years.in 2013.  I was off sick for over am ear and they wanted to terminate my employment as I was not apable to do my job so this seemed the best idea. Not really how I wanted to end my career,. I glad I did as I went on to have more lung Mets which I had treatment form nd they have now come back again. On the plus side I took the family to Iceland which we loved. 

 

Life fe is too short to worry about work , if you can afford it retire and live your life and enjoy every moment xx

Moijan
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Yes, big decision. 💙 Jools

 

Bernadetteh, i found it quite hard to do,even tho, I was the one who pushed for it. I stayed on the register for a while...in those days it was a 5 year renewal, and Just before that happened, I did a return to practice course and went back! But found that my colleagues were working twice as hard in the same hours and doing their IT in their own time! So ethically, I felt I didnt want to do it. It felt a wrench when I finally left the register as obviously id worked so very hard to get on it all those years ago.

i wish you both luck with your decision.😍  

 

Moijanxx

JoolsW
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Thank you stresshead, it's a lot to think about, I haven't had any time off since diagnosis, work were very good during my chemo (being a Drs surgery just as well ), and I carried on but occasionally I left early or started later. I think maybe this is why I'm struggling also with the decision. Thank you for your reply.

 

all the best

juliax 

JoolsW
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Re: Retiring on ill health grounds

Hi bernadetteh

yes it is a hard decision one day I think "yep that's it I'm going to take it" then I think " no not yet" good luck with your decision, let us know what you decide. 

Best wishes

juliax 

stresshead
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Hi ladies, i have just 'been retired on ill health grounds' rather than taken early retirement..if it makes a difference??

I was diagnosed in 2011 and was off work until 2012 (approx the whole year although i worked in a school).

I worked from August 2012 til July 2014 when my secondary diagnosis was confirmed. My job was held open for me but as my disease progressed it was becoming less likey that i would return to work and they couldnt keep my job open for ever. I was advised by my union and Macmillan not to retire so in the end my employer technically finished me on a dismissal. However they were fully supportive of my situation and did all they could to get my pension paid in full even though i'm only 52. it isnt a lot but at least i dont have to worry about holding a job down as well as coping with this awful disease (although i appreciate many people want to continue). I have never thought of it as giving in to cancer,,i just value other things more in my life than work. It is going to be hard financially and realise it isnt an option for everyone but its the right decision for me. I'm sure, with the right advice you will reach the right decision. xx

bernadetteh
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I'm also thinking of taking ill health retirement from the NHS. I'm 53, I dont have secondries, but have had BC four times and my last diagnosis was metastasis to a lymph node. I also have an underative Thyroid and have been experiancing Migraines on a regular basis. I presently work full-time as a Community Mental Health Nurse in a crisis team, but Im finding it very difficult at the moment. It's such a big decsion isnt it!

JoolsW
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Hi scratch

thank you so much for your wise kind words. I'd love to go to India, an amazing place. I'm hoping the decision will come soon ....its good to hear from others who have taken this decision positively.  Thank you and wishing you well. 

 

julia x 

scratch
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Jools the cancer will not change wether you work or not.I took early retirement and I'm glad I did I never get bored and it takes the pressure of work away on off days..i travelled a lot went to Las Vegas .india.Caribbean and I'm so glad I did it all coz lately slowed down I get pip and esa..which helps enormously as I'm not even retirement age yet...have a long think the decision will come to you..takecare Sharon.x
Moijan
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Thank you. I did have to go back to my gp and tell him i wanted to go back to work because I needed his agreemant. But no problem with that.

 

good luck

 

Moijanxx

JoolsW
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Re: Retiring on ill health grounds

Thank you Moijan for replying, that has made me feel better about it all. The fact I can go back to work (albeit a different job) if I wanted helps, I have spoken to a Macmillan advisor now as well who was very good but I needed to speak to someone that had actually been through it and done it.

i hope your doing well and thank you again

 

love Julia xx 

Moijan
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Re: Retiring on ill health grounds

Hi Julie, I took early retirement. I was working in the nhs at the time, my prognosis wasnt good and so 

I went early at around 52. i was lucky because I had friends who were union reps and the gave me advice.

 

as cancer patients, we have protection by. Law, so if you need/want to retire, see your GP and ask him to support you. You will likely have to fill out forms and your GP will,have to write on your behalf.

i wish you the very best of luck, keep us posted

 

And NO it isnt giving in to cancer, its called looking after yourself,

 

I went because I wanted to give myself the best chance of recovery.  and you may find that like me, you feel able to go back at a later date...I went back 5 years later....for a while, but found that they wanted twice as much work done in half the time...so  I decided to leave again after about two years

 

i hope you make the best choice for youxx

 

best wishes Moijanxx

JoolsW
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Re: Retiring on ill health grounds

Hi carolyn

thank you that is helpful. I was diagnosed January 2015 with straight up secondary Breast cancer, mets in liver. Had 6 sessions chemo and H&P and now maintenance H&p. Stable at the moment. I don't know what PIP is but will look into it.  Unfortunately where I work the c-word is all to prominent and I deal with palliative care paperwork etc and it's kind of a constant reminder. I'm sure I'll figure out what to do in the end, thank you for your kind words and sharing your story. Wishing you all the best.

 

julia xx 

Carolyn52
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Jools .. I cant really guide you and its the decision you must make for yourself and really based on your financial status and how you could afford to live. Im not sure what your cancer status is but a lot of us get PIP which is a great help for things.

 

My story is I worked until I was 62 and could draw my state pension and small work one ... I looked forward to travelling and enjoying the freedom from 9 to 5 Office hours. Well I had a year when we moved house and did a lot of granny sitting and then I got dx with bone mets which has limited me a lot from doing all the things I thought I would be able to ... no one knows what is around the corner so to speak ...  and lifes a gamble . 

A lot of ladies enjoy working to focus away from the c word .... I had 11 years from primary to secondary and was fit and well to work full time .. I dont miss work at all but of course Im much older and sometimes wish I had retired years before I did so I could have enjoyed life when I was well.

 

Not much help but Im sure you will work out the best option for yourself.

Carolyn xxx 

JoolsW
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Retiring on ill health grounds

Hi all

ive not been on here for a while but hoping your all doing well. Has anyone taken ill health retirement? I'm thinking about doing so (I'm 52) not because I feel physically unable but because its emotionally hard. But I'm scared of asking for it, what if I regret it and I start to dwell. I've already cut my hrs and the job would not be do-able on less hrs than I do now. I guess what I want is someone to tell me what to do and I know that can't happen but if anyone has any wise words (or has taken ill health retirement) I'd love to hear. 

 

Ive recently lost two friends to this ruddy awful disease and although I am stable at present it's shaken me and made me re-evaluate things. I guess the bottom line is I'm scared I'll take retirement and then it'll all spiral downwards. Am I giving into Cancer? Any help please.

 

thank you all

 

julia x