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Standing outside the dark, dark woods.

Lisa_x
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Re: Standing outside the dark, dark woods.

To SCACO, cheers xx

Wandy
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To SCACO, still can't believe you've gone...Here's to you, special girl, missed by us all.
Wandyxx

21210
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To my dear friend & fellow woodie SCACO.xxxx

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To SCACO, her memory will live on in all of us forever. We will miss you xx
RevCat
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To SCACO! To absent friends!
JCJ
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I've recently been a lurker in the woods. It felt a bit like trespassing as I didn't have chemo, but I've enjoyed the humour. I raise a toast to the founder but is the Dark Woods wine non-flush inducing? Because I've given up on alcohol in the 'real world' as the flushes just aren't worth it!

I like the idea of granny knicker catapaults between the bushes, to fire NE away from the woods!
Mezzomamma
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To SCACO! To absent friends!

Jo_C
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Cheers SCACO! Xx

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Glass raised. Cheers SCACO, thinking of you tonight xx
applestreet
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wasn't going to post anymore....decided time was to move on....but the woods are calling me as well...tears fell all day yesterday....I would have gone doolally tap if not for these woods....place of friendship and support....place where you're understood....large glass of white please...raise your glasses to SCACO...thank you from the bottom of my heart...Maggie

GIJaneH
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LARGE crystal glasses filled and waiting.... NE has been spotted... no sign of PB yet though... need reinforcements to keep NE out - might have to spread the granny knickers between bushes to ambush his attempts...

Jane xx

tillybob
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I will share a glass in honour of the Woods founder, I don't come in very often now but had to visit for this very sad occasion, I really hope these woods carry on for those about to start their journey , it is SCACO s legacy. RIP.x

Jo_C
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Big glass of rose for me too please! Better not offer out the alcohol too freely though or NE will come sniffing around again. I'm sure I saw him slinking behind a tree just now!

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A rose for me please girls (LARGE) !! in fact line em up Im on my way!!!!
supertrouper
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Large glass of red please - now where did I put my silver platform boots!

GIJaneH
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Think you mean "BRINGITON" one of SCACO's favourite friends......
Definitely a big send off in the JM... anyone want a large glass of wine while we plan?

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I'm with you supertrouper....bring that right on!! x
supertrouper
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I am holed up in my tent with my ipad (solar powered don't cha know) reading the thread from the beginning too. I didn't find my way into the woods until June 2012 but what a welcome I was given. Flamethrowers at the ready fellow woodies - don't let the gremlins catch us whilst we grieve.
How about arranging a bloody good send off for SCACO in the JM bar. I am quite prepared to make a prat of myself by dressing up and singing SUPERTROUPER at the top of my voice as long as PB doesn't try to join in.
Lets lift our chins and look up and forward. Make SCACO proud of us. I will never stop fighting!

GIJaneH
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In the words of original Woodies - PositiveThinking seems to have done a runner, and "woeisme" seems to have taken up residence, along with sundry bad language.... Been reading back from the beginning...
Bless you Karen - such a gift to us all...
Think Gin is required again....
Jane xx

Ninja
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Chief Woodie SCaCO - you will be missed. We will look after the woods for you and keep NE at bay with sharp sticks.
I'm lost for words...

supertrouper
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Vulnerable and fragile sums it up for me.
Going to get the super dooper flamethrower out from behind the JM bar and send some of those gremlins into outer space.
Knickers also flying at half mast - best be careful not to trip over them!

GIJaneH
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moving poems both.... knew the second (Queen Mum had it at her funeral)... first was new to me, and, as I'm conducting a memorial service in November for those that the Palliative Care team have cared for in the last year, I shall probably use them both! Feels a bit near the bone at the moment! I simply refused to even think that I might die of BC last year when I was goign through it. I was going to "beat it"... feel very vulnerable and fragile right now, and I guess I'm not the only one...

Knickers flying at half mast!

Jane

supertrouper
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Re: Standing outside the dark, dark woods.

You can shed tears that she is gone
Or you can smile because she has lived
You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back
Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her
Or you can be full of the love that you shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday
You can remember her and only that she is gone
Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back
Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.
poem by David Hawkins
Very sad week...very sad.

21210
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What a lovely poem, made me cry too. XxxX

foxyferret
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Very apt and very beautiful. That's brought tears to my eyes.
SCACO can't have known quite what she was starting when she put up her first post on this thread but she started a wonderful place of humour, companionship and encouragement. An invaluable help to many people, who will never forget her.
JCJ
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Re: Standing outside the dark, dark woods.

If I be the first of us to die
Let grief not blacken long your sky
Be bold yet modest in your grieving
There is a change but not a leaving
For just as death is part of life,
The dead live on forever in the living.
And all the gathered riches of our journey,
The moments shared, the mysteries explored,
The steady layering of intimacy shared,
The things that made us laugh, or weep or sing,
The joy of sunlit snow or first unfurling of the spring,
The wordless language of look and touch,
The knowing
Each giving and each taking
These are not flowers that fade,
Nor trees that fall and crumble.
Nor are they stone,
For even stone cannot the wind and rain withstand,
And mighty mountain peaks in time reduce to sand.
What we were, we are.
What we had, we have.
A conjoined past imperishably present.
So when you walk the woods where once we walked together
And scan in vain the dappled banks beside you for my shadow,
Or pause where we always did upon the hill to gaze across the land;
And spotting something, reach by habit for my hand
And finding none, feel sorrow start to steal upon you.
Be still.
Close your eyes.
Breathe.
Listen for my footfall in your heart.
I am not gone but merely walk within you.

From The Smoke Jumper by Nicholas Evans
But somehow very apt for the DDW thread? RIP Karen/SCACO
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Bye bye dearest darling Scaco - and thank you. You brave, inspirational woman with your beautifully shaped head. I shall miss you so much. Keep a big squashy cushion for me in that great big yurt in the sky - see you one day soon xxxxx
GIJaneH
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A naturally very subdued Wood today.... SCACO - you have a central place in it always. I think I'll trundle to the chapel and light a candle for you
THenk you for leading the way - creating a safe place for so many of us to struggle, fight, laugh, cry, be daft, support each other - simply priceless SCACO... love and prayers for your family.. and huge gratitude to you (and all the other Woodies). The DDW were what kept me sane some days last year.... Deepest thanks...
Jane (sniff)(sniff)

janipi
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Like Mezzomamma I'm off to light a candle in her memory. xxx

janipi
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Devastated!! Rest In Peace darling girl. I will always remember our time in the woods and how you made me smile through the worst of tmes xxxx

ChoccieMuffin
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If only tears had magic life-giving properties. If they did, then the tears being shed across the country for SCACO, Karen, would raise her and so many who have been taken from us by this horrible disease.

RevCat, lovely words. So sad that they are necessary.

Deepest sympathies to Karen's family and friends, my life was better for having known her.

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Hear hear Bev and Revcat. The woods keep calling me back to hold vigil today. SCACO will always shine down and guide those who have to go through the woods RIP Karen xxx
Mezzomamma
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Yes, thanks Revcat. At least SCACO is free of pain and suffering now, not in the way we had all hoped, but still free.

21210
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What beautiful words Revcat, i am so very sad to have lost our dear friend but i know that she truly will be the brightest star in the "woods" tonight shining a path for others to follow & keeping them safe, loved, reassured & entertained, with that unique sense of humour all the way & raising a glass with us in the JM 🙂 God bless & sleep well amongst the Angels my lovely friend & fellow woodie.xxx

RevCat
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The woods are still but for the sound of weeping, as near silent tears fall across the land.
One last sleep fairy drew near to our dear SCACO and said 'you have suffered enough, now rest'
The two-fingered flag flies at half mast, the dogs cease their frolics, and we pause to be thankful...

In time, we will tiptoe to the JM to raise a toast to our wonderful friend
But for now we sit in silent, sad, solidarity
Or light candles at the chapel of St Raphael

Rest peacefully SCACO, brave and beautiful woman
Your love and laughter live on
We wil remember you.
moser
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I've posted on the SCACO thread but I wanted to also say to the "woodies" that I'm so so sorry for their loss. i did not post on this thread but always lurked, and I am gutted at this terrible news.
RIP SCACO.
Mo xxx

Mezzomamma
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RIP. My thoughts and prayers for her family and friends. Off to light a candle in memory.

Lavenderlassie
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RIP SCACO and my love and best wishes to all you Woodies who knew her most
Lavender
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applestreet
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RIP sweetie...

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It seems like the woods are the right place to post this:
"Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there. I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow. I am the diamond glints on snow. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry; I am not there. I did not die." Mary Frye
Karen will always be with us, but it is so hard not to cry today xxx
RIP Karen (SCACO)
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RIP lovely Karen, your wit and life shone through from the first time we "met" on this thread to later meetings in real life. Devastated, just devastated. My thoughts and prayers are with her husbnad, children, family and friends and to all of those whose lives Karen touched.
Sue xxx
Alto
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Goodbye Karen. A truly unique and special lady. This disease is so terribly cruel and you've gone far too early. So, so sad. Love and prayers to her husband, children and family.

Jane xxx
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So so sad..RIP SCACO..Such an inspiration 😞
sending love to your family and friends
Kate x
AnnieK68
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Another who left us too soon - Rest in Peace SCACO, thank you for showing us the route to the woods.

With love to all

Axx

Wandy
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Am devastated. RIP to our wonderful girl. She meant so much to so many here. Will never forget you SCACOxx
Wandyx

21210
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Ladies, its with such great sadness that i have to tell you that our fellow woodie SCACO passed away peacefully this morning.xxx

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Thanks S xx
21210
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Bumping for Biff 🙂 xx

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Sorry applestreet you were having a lovely doze by the lagoon I didnt want to wake you so I snook off to the JM.I knew you would find me 🙂 CHEERS!!
applestreet
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Hey woodies
Jane am down by the lagoon with Kate....gearing up for tomorrow....school has decided beloved grandchild can only start on tuesday now...AAAAARRGHHH!!!....running out of fun ideas for a lively 4 year old.....on second thoughts....I'll come to the JM and join you.....might as well have fun whilst I can as I'll be shattered tomorrow.....be there in a mo...large white wine sounds just the ticket... Kate where,ve you gone?...Oh there you are in the JM...more wine ladies....don't mind if I do...virtual wine doesn't make your hotties worse...another one...OK then...anyone else want to pull up a chair?...M