Thanks ladies.

I’m so relieved and excited you ladies responded you all have lifted my day. I have certainly stayed off the internet with the Googling. I think that alone is depressing and also not true for everyone. I rather hear the positive stories and chat with people going thru or have gone thru what I’m going to deal with.

Very wise, godsgirl, that you’ve picked up on the googling problem! A lot of stuff is old on there & is not relevant to your situation.
There are many others on here with a her2 diagnosis & treatment for this is pretty good now, so you will feel better once this is all in place.
There is the ‘hows everyone doing’ thread on thus board, on '‘going through treatment’ you will find the relevant threads for your situation.
do take care
ann x