Hi there
I am new to this site, I’ve been all over the internet trying to find somewhere to “settle” as I just need some emotional support, and I find sharing with others seems to make it easier for me.
Just to outline, I noticed a lump on Christmas Day (great timing)in my left breast. I have always had soreness there and lumpiness and been to the docs a few times over the years but told it was nothing - probably muscle strain etc, or I’m just lumpy.
Anyway, it just felt really heavy on Christmas Day and I found a lump about 2cm diameter a bit up from the nipple. I had to wait until the docs opened after New Year to see the doctor so the wait was awful.
He said to wait until after my period and go back. In the meantime I moved house (overseas!)with my husband and daughter, and went to the doctors in our new place a couple of weeks ago. The doc thought it was just a blocked duct but sent me for a mammogram anyway.
When I went for the mammogram they found the lump of course, and i had an ultrasound straight after. It turns out there was a cyst and two other suspicious areas. The doctor then did a FN aspiration on all three and I had to wait a week for the results. Unfortunately there was too much blood in the samples apparently so I had to go for a biopsy (3 more needles) last week.
For the first week after the aspiration I was worrying myself stupid to the point where I felt really ill. Its strange because I am not worrying for myself, but my young daughter - as I don’t want her to be without a mum (I know - I haven’t even been told its cancer yet!!!)
Anyway, after the biopsy I was just all worried out and couldn’t worry anymore and decided to be very philosphical and what will be will be etc.
However, as I am expecting the results of the biopsy tomorrow or Friday I am starting to get more and more anxious.
My husband’s reaction is to tell me it will be nothing - and I know it is his way of dealing with it, but if I try to tell him my fears it feels like he backs away.
I think I’m just looking for a bit of shoulder to cry on please.
Thanks
xx