Hi Mrs Pattenden, Im sorry it wasnt a clear result for you but as you already realise your results are much better than they could have been, i hope you can find some rest from the anxiety a little now you at least know and every step from now on is a positive one towards getting rid of this! Plenty of help and support always here for you Xx Jo
Wondeful news Shelly, and thank you for letting us know, its so important for everyone waiting on results to know that the news is often good , get Back to.enjoying.your life and try and put this behind you! XX
Its so cruel you are having to face this with a new baby to care for, its awful at anytime but I can only imagine how traumatic it is for you when you should be at your happiest, Life stinks at times and its almost like you have to pay a price for being happy, thats certainly how i felt, started last year with so much to look forward to then in March the ground was swept from beneath us with my diagnosis, i was so so angry at it daring to shatter my lovely life and family , i could have murdered someone i was so full of rage and self pity! Looking back I thought i would have coped better but you just cannot when you are under threat and I have never been so scared, waking my husband several times a night in utter terror, it was just awful but i gradually picked myself up and got through it, my point is if you are diagnosed you wont always feel like you do now, self preservation and sheer bloody mindedness will kick in and you will confront it head on! Lets keep hoping you will never have to worry about it all again but just remember we are here and weve got the T shirt between us on the forum!! 😉 Xx
Hi ladies, The waiting on results is the absolute pits, it was the lowest I felt throughout my diagnosis and treatment , your brain can process facts however bad they are but its so hard to deal with the Unknown, you go around in circles and drive yourselves batty! The Drs don't always get it right and we have had ladies who have been told they are certain it will be cancer for them to come back with a clear result, it does happen!
there isn't anything I can say to stop you feeling like this at the minute , it's something all of us here have been through and we know how awful it is, If you are diagnosed you will find a way to cope, we've been through the lot here between us and will support and help in anyway we can, you certainly are not on your own 😊 Xx Jo