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ChristineP
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Re: Young and worried

Hi Lorna,
Just wanted to say hello, and very sorry to hear you too have been diagnosed with ibc. Are you on chemo now? Have you tried some of the very soft bras, and a few cup sizes larger - this worked for me.
Warm wishes, christine

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I just realized this post was from a few months back. How are you far ring so far?
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Hi Jazzles
You're not alone girl. I've just been diagnosed with IBC and it hasn't sunk in yet. I'm still in denial sad to say and I'm avoiding the topic. my GP like your's is very hands on and has referred me to more test specialist and the whole lot.
My breast has been so sore it's like I haven't breastfed for hours . It hurts to wear a bra ...I've been going braless when home. My left breast has grown over night ... I've had nasty discharged from my breast and the throwing up has been severe . The lumps and redness have now gone noticely worse.
I've been in and out if doctors and have never had so many needles in my entire 28 year old life.
Hang in there girl. You will get through this
Xx
tillybob
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Fingers crossed the anti Bs work for you and you are more comfortable, it does sound like it could be infection BUT you should still get tha breast clinic to have a look just in case. xx

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Me again!

So I found swelling and pain in both armpits and over the past couple of nights I've been kept up at night with the pain in both breasts. I was in a fair bit of pain at work today and one of the ladies there was urging me to phone the breast clinic to see if I could get in sooner. Four phone calls to four different numbers later (they don't make it easy to contact them!) and I was told that I wasn't even on the waiting list yet!! I was really down after that so I phoned my gp office and asked if my doc could give me a call at any point, to which they said the earliest would be Wednesday.

When I got home from work the pain was pretty bad so I phoned NHS24, just for advice. The lady was lovely and said the swelling and pain that had come on since I saw the gp was concerning so she told me to go to the G-Docs at my local A&E dept.

The nurse was the most lovely woman - I get very nervous in hospitals and she was so reassuring - and she took my temperature, blood pressure etc etc. She said I had a very slightly raised temperature but not 'feverish' or alarming. Only very slight. She examined my breasts and underarms and could obviously see the redness and said the right one was definitely swollen. She was baffled -she thought it must have been hormonal - so she went and got one of the doctors. He wasn't great, to be honest. He examined me again and said that my right breast felt more firm and also that he could feel lumps on the right hand side of it but then quickly said "but you're only young, so don't worry about those"... Typical! I was too nervous to challenge him as I had to go alone - my best friend who knows about this and is coming to the clinic with me is in a different country just now! Anyway, he told me it was most likely an infection (even though the gp was pretty sure it wasn't..) and prescribed me with Erythromycin to take for a week and told me to go back to the gp once that was up.

Fingers crossed they work. Sorry for the long post - just wanted to vent as I'm starting to see what everyone means when they say doctors won't take you seriously if you're young!

Hope all of you are doing ok 🙂

-jazzles

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Also, the nausea that I was feeling seems to have disappeared so I think that may have been related to something else - I have a hunch that it was my anti-depressants as when I first started taking them I felt nauseous like that all the time but then it disappeared as my body got used to them. I couldn't get to the doctors for a couple of weeks when my last prescription ran out so I had to go about a week and a half without them so I'm guessing that going back onto them after that time is probably what brought on the nausea.

:)

-jazzles
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Thanks for your reply and support Christine - I will definitely keep you all updated as this goes on.

I've been checking both breasts for any more changes since I went to the doctors and I've noticed a little bit of redness has started to appear on the left breast now. It's nowhere near as bad at the right but it's still redness around the whole breast with the same kind of texture as the right one has. The right one is still noticeably bigger than the left though. I was also feeling around and in my left armpit there was a bit (quite far down - like the bit in between the armpit and breast) that was really tender and painful to touch. The pain continues and shoots into my left breast for a couple of minutes after pressing on it.

Anybody have any ideas on this? Does the fact that both sides seem to be affected by whatever this is indicate less of a likelihood for IBC?

Still waiting anxiously for that appointment letter!

Thanks again ladies,

-jazzles
ChristineP
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Hi jazzles,
Poor you, not knowing what is happening is really hard. Glad to hear your GP is cool and referred you immediately.
you should get an appointment within two weeks of referral (though if the hospital is too busy there may be a delay). When I was referred I was in a lot of pain, and phoned up 4 days after being referred and just asked ife there was any cancellation, as I was in so much pain (I had ibc and my breast was two cup sizes larger than normal). I was lucky and they managed to squeeze me in that same day. Worth trying.
You are very right to take a friend with you - to keep you company and moral support as well as an extra listening ear. in my hospital the wait in the breast clinic waiting room often was very long, so a friend to talk to wold be very good in case you find the same waits once there.
i hope there is an innocent explanation of your symptoms. Whatever it may be, there are lots of lovely ladies here to support you.
fingers crossed the breast clinic gets you an appointment very soon
warm wishes

Christine

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Thank you everybody for your replies! It's unfortunate that we have to meet under these circumstances but you are all so supportive and friendly.

Do any of you know/remember how long it takes to get the initial consultation with the specialist? I know I only saw the doctor on Wednesday but I'm just itching to get my appointment letter through. I'm not even sure why - I just feel a little helpless at the moment. Stuck in that awkward, lonely part of all this where I can't really talk to anybody about my worries about IBC for fear that they will fob me off or even laugh at me for thinking I might have something so serious so young. But as I said before and as too many unfortunate young people know - rare doesn't mean never - so I don't think my worries are laughable.

I plan on taking a friend with me to the specialist and pushing for answers. I don't want to leave there thinking that I'm not doing everything I can to get to the bottom of this.

Thanks again for all your kind replies. Good to know I'm not alone.

-jazzles

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You've come to the right place and agree with emzylou don't be fobbed off at the clinic take somebody with you as support it helps, you are very young and 80 to 90 per cent of symptoms are nothing to worry about you've done the right thing and gotten some help unfortunately there is alot of waiting in this game hope all goes well for you good luck!!
tillybob
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I was dx with IBC 2 years ago, your symptoms sound a little like IBC but until you have seen a specialist breast clinic doctor don't assume it is, it could be mastitis, I never had nausia, Please don't google , all you'll do is scare yourself, most info is out of date and misleading, Please let us know what happens and we can help you if needed, hopefully it will not be anything serious.
Jean

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Hi Jazzle!

Sorry you find yourself here but I am glad that your GP has taken your symptoms seriously as many don't when you are young but also make sure anyone you see at clinic take it seriously too (I was initialy told to go away with mastitis but luckily I refused!) and insist on biopsies as this is the main detector of IBC...it rarely shows on a mammogram or has a lump.

I am 18 months post diagnosis and am 33 years old and have a blog at www.facebook.com/ThinkIBC. If you use facebook? We tend to lurk over there more nowadays!
Sorry you are here but there are ladies here who can and will advise you. I have so far been NED since september 🙂

Emma x
Flip_flop
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Hi,
I don't know too much about IBC, but I know what a nightmare the waiting is. Your doctor sound really nice, and it is good that he is taking you seriously, as like you say some can dismiss things because of age. I think with any breast issues they like to refer you to the breast clinic, just to check it out and be on the safe side. Hopefully it will turn out to be harmless. Try and keep busy if you can whilst waiting for the appointment.
Faye x
Jo_BCC
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Hi Jazzles,

Welcome to the Breast Cancer Care discussion forums where I am sure you will get lots of good, honest support from the many informed users of this site. I have put for you below the link to a couple of BCC's publications you might like to read before your hospital appointment. I know that your fellow forum users will tell you not to Google, as there is a lot of wrong/outdated/inaccurate information out there, stick to reputable websites such as this one and Macmillan. Our helpline team are also just a free phone call away, 0808 800 6000 lines are open 9-5 Mon-Fri and 10-2 Sat, the staff are here to support you and answer any questions you have.

http://www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/worried-about-breast-cancer/referral-breast-clinic-...

http://www2.breastcancercare.org.uk/publications/breast-health/your-breasts-your-health-quick-guide-...

Take care,

Jo, Facilitator

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Young and worried

Hi everyone,
Apologies in advance for what will be a long post!!
I just wanted to find somewhere to vent a little and get some more information on IBC and after lurking around at a few posts, these forums seem like a great place to do so 🙂
First of all, I'm in my early 20s so I know that the chances of what I have being IBC are very slim BUT I also know that 'rare' doesn't mean 'never'.
A couple of weeks ago I woke up and looked in the mirror and noticed that literally overnight my right breast had grown to create a significant difference in size to the left. There were also stretch marks all around the top of it which there was absolutely NO signs of beforehand. I then realised that my breast was a funny colour. The whole thing was red and I just put it down to sleeping on it funny or something and hoped it would go away - though the very sudden growth and stretchmarks did confuse (and upset!) me. I took some photos of it on my phone to make sure it definitely wasn't in my head but I could clearly see that something was wrong with it and it was indeed, very red. A week later I took my phone out again and took some photos of the underside of my breast and was pretty shocked as it was still very red but also looked a little purple - almost as if it was bruised. The redness has not gone away and it's now been two weeks. Every now and then I get a small shooting pain in it but nothing unbearable - just noticeable.
I went to my GP yesterday (I have to say - he is the BEST doctor I've ever had - he actually listens to me and is very pro-active, unlike many others that I've had) and he seemed a little concerned by it. He said there was a definite size difference and the colour change was very noticeable. After reading a few other women's posts about this, I had assumed that he would just tell me that it's an infection and give me anti-biotics but he seemed pretty adamant that it wasn't and has referred me to the breast clinic at the local hospital. I am just waiting to get my appointment date.
For the last week or so I've also been having a lot of nausea - sometimes so bad that it keeps me up at night. Before anybody asks, there's definitely no chance of pregnancy! I've been single for over a year and have not slept with anybody in that time.
I was looking at my breast again this afternoon and I can see very tiny thread-like veins amoungst the redness which I had not really noticed before.
I'm obviously really anxious to get the clinic date through the post so I can get this seen to asap and I just wondered what your thoughts are on this as I'd honestly never heard of IBC until I Googled 'red breasts' a couple of weeks ago!
I hope I'm just being paranoid but I'm so glad that my doctor is actually being pro-active instead of my usual response from doctors about things - "you're young, it'll be nothing.. come back if it's not better in a month".
Sorry again for the super long post - just looking for some support!
Thanks!
-jazzles