Hi everyone. I was diagnosed on 17th Jan and had a masectomy last week. I feel lucky that my treatment and diagnosis has moved quickly but it makes it harder to adjust to. i feel a bit numb about what has happened and friends and family keep commenting on how matter of fact i am being. i think it’s because I am blocking out lots of worries and trying to deal practicly with my thoughts/problems. I have 2 children living at home (3rd at Uni) and want to appear “normal” for them. We (partner and I) have taken the positive line of we’ll get through this and no I’m not going to die with the kids. Maybe I can use this forum to express my dark nights of the soul instead of worrying my family.
My treatment so far has been excellent, GP and very quick appt at breast clinic.I guessed on my 1st visit that staff thought i had breast cancer so the diagnosis after biopsy results wasn’t such a shock. Surgery was arranged so quickly (2 1/2 weeks later) that I felt i was running aroung trying to sort things out at work (I’m a teacher) and tell everyone i needed to as well as spend time with partner etc etc. I thought about spring cleaning but i’m glad i didn’t as a lovely friend came to stay this weekend and insisted on hoovering, ironing, cooking. I came home with 1 drain in but thankfully that was removed next day so i’m back to see BC nurse for check today. A friend had lots of problems with seroma (spelling?) so i hope i’ll avoid that but not sure if there is anyting i can do to help beyond arm exercises???
Planning to log on regularly and get to know you all. Great to be able to get advice from people who have been through same experience. By the way I’ve got appt for final diagnosis and treatment plan in 10 days but at the mo I’ve been told I’ll probably be having chemo.
Love Littlemrs