Hi Jellymould
I'm 50, not exactly a 'younger woman', but I'm in north Shropshire - so probably not too far away from you.
I'm a bit of an 'old timer' - I was dx Dec 2010 with a 5cm, grade 3, ER++, lobular cancer. I had to have the 'full monty' of treatment - mx + immediate recon, chemo and rads, but managed to keep working through most of it. Active treatment finished just over a year ago (apart from tamoxifen) and I was back at work full time shortly afterwards.
2011 was pretty rubbish - 2012 has been much better! Hope your results are OK tomorrow and you get your treatment plan.
Good luck!
Dx