Hi Newdawn
I would welcome you to the site, but realise that you probably don't want to be here and wish you didn't need to be here. I'm glad your appointment has been changed to 19th, not as long to wait - and waiting is the worst part really.
After your appointment, you will probably have to wait about a week for the results, unless your clinic has the fast track system. I don't know where you live, but mostly referrals are much quicker than the 18 weeks you were quoted. My GP managed to get me in the week after my appointment with her, and results were one week after that. But even if you only have to wait a few days, it is still the worst time of all. We usually find that when we have our results and know what we are dealing with, and a treatment plan is in place, we begin to feel more in control.
i hope your lump proves to be a harmless one, and not cancer, but if it is, this is the best place to come for advice and information. PLEASE DO NOT GOOGLE!! I can't state that strongly enough, as much of what you will find is wrong, or out of date. Just stick to this site or the Macmillan site:
http://www.macmillan.org.uk/Cancerinformation/Cancertypes/Breast/Breastcancer.aspx
this is the link the the breast cancer section of their website. I've pointed you to that bit because they deal with all cancers.
My heart went out to your son, he must be taking the news very hard. Hopefully you will soon be able to reassure him that even if you do have breast cancer, it can be treated successfully.
Sending big hugs and best wishes.
Poemsgalore xxx