Hello- another one in the same boat I'm afraid- and I don't think I can be very encouraging to you.You don't say how old you are - I do think that this is a factor. I was 65 at diagnosis: 69 now.
I finished chemo in Dec 2008 and have had very slow hair regrowth - and I think what I have now is as good as it's going to get.
My hair used to be thick and wavy; now I think I have lost half the follicles and the hair that has grown is fine as well as thin (the top of my head burnt when I was in the sun last week) It is like 'male pattern baldness' sparse on top etc .
I have looked into various hair restorers but do not believe that any of them will do any good for those of us who have lost our hair through chemotherapy ( Taxotere in my case) coupled with ongoing hormone treatment (Arimidex) & the age thing. My onc expresses surprise at my problem & says it's VERY unusual but I think that that is codswallop: I think it is actually just under-reported- particularly as many of the sufferers are amongst we 'more mature' women.
I wore wigs for 3 years but my family prevailed on me to come to terms with my 'new look'- and I am trying to be reconciled to it! I now have my hair cut every 8 weeks ago to prevent it getting straggly and I have great faith in my hairdresser- she has really made the best of what little hair I have- and it's mostly white - which helps I think. On a good day I kid myself that it looks like Judy Dench's hair - but usually I am too conscious of the "gaps ' when I catch sight of myself in a mirror........too depressing!