I really wish I'd had the presence of mind to ask your question when I was diagnosed in May.
I just assumed you "got what you were given" - if the GP referred you to the local hospital, then that was where you had your treatment. I had no idea you can request your GP to refer you basically anywhere on the NHS.
I was referred to my local (E London) hospital, and while I think they were perfectly decent medically, the rest of the experience was horrible - poor communication, rude staff, cancelled appointments, bureacratic mix-ups. From the start I had a bad gut feeling about the place, but just assumed I couldn't do anything about it. And also was so freaked out by the whole situation I just wanted to get everything done quickly. I'd also had no experience (thankfully) of hospitals, and just assumed that's what NHS hospitals were like.
I've since been referred to one of the big central London hospitals (not the Royal Marsden) for my follow-ups, and work on my reconstruction, and I can't believe the difference. So - really - trust your gut feeling, if you have little faith in your local hospital, ask to be referred somewhere else. i didn't even need to make an appointment with my GP - just a quick chat on the phone.
Also - if you are planning on an immediate reconstruction - really consider being referred to a surgeon with a well-documented, good reputation. I have a fab plastic surgeon now, but my original reconstruction failed. Don't know how much that was down to bad luck, and how much down to a surgeon lacking the skills - but there were a number of red flags I wish I'd heeded at the time.
As far as the delay goes - I had a holiday booked right after my diagnosis - and my surgeon said a couple of weeks' delay in my treatment would make no difference. Of course check though that would be the same in your case - we're all different.
Good luck with whatever you decide - and all the very best to you.
Welcome to the forums. I'm sorry to hear of your diagnosis, the first few weeks are always difficult when coming to terms with your diagnosis and treatment.
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I am new to this forum and newly diagnosed with grade 2 ductal breast cancer. I have had tests during last two weeks and now told I need a mastectomy as I have several (small) tumours in my left breast - two of which have been biopsied with the diagnosis being malignant. My deliberation is whether to continue with my local hospital - which I have little confidence in, or be referred to a specialist hospital in London (e.g Royal Marsden) but this would mean a delay of at least two weeks. My lack of confidence in my local (North London) hospital is due to them not picking this up earlier. I was seen by them in March and told there was nothing to worry about - they could feel no lumps and said that as I had had my routine mammogram the previous August (and I assume that was clear) then no further tests were needed. This despite very obvious visible changes to the breast - dimpling and nipple being pulled inwards.
I would really like to hear from anyone who has been or is being seen at the Royal Marsden and what your views are on the services they provide. Also whether delaying things by a couple of weeks will make any difference. My local hospital says that my surgery won't be for 3-4 weeks anyway.
Any views on my situation would be greatly appreciated.