Hi Debs
My god, i think its to soon, if you had BC in september surely your treatment has only just finished?? After talking to a lot of people the worst part really is after the BC, your emotions are high one minute low the next, you really need to take a few months to recoup and like you said get fit, 5 years is a big commitment, amazing yes but if i was in your shoes i'd really want the hospital to be keeping a close eye on me, surely you must have some follow up appointments. I think you need to tell him how much you appreciate him and ask if he could be a bit patient for a little longer whilst you get your energy levels back and get fitter for this wonderful trip, you dont want anything to spoil it and tell him you feel it would be better to just delay it a few months or a year, however long you need and remember this is your life and your body, you need to still put yourself first at the moment, he sounds as though he's a wonderful man and im sure would be understanding, I think your fears are understandable due to what your first rotten husband did.
Hope this helps, good luck
Tracey
xxx
