Hi Amanda,
Welcome to the forum although I'm sorry you have to be here. I was diagnosed in January and had a lumpectomy and lymph node clearance, currently undergoing chemotherapy FEC x 6 with only 2 more to go thankfully. Don't worry about chemo, it's definately doable, I know some people have a really rough time but not everyone does and i'm one of them so try not to panic, the fear of it is far worse than the reality. There's already a thread set up for starting chemo in June, you'll get loads of support from the ladies on there, the March ladies have been my lifeline.
http://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/community/forums/undergoing-treatment-chemotherapy/starting-chemo-june-2012#comment-2032578
Take care
Lydia x