I'm sorry to see you haven't had any replies to your post as yet, unfortunately there is problem with viewing new threads on the forum at the moment but hopefully it will be rectified soon.
May I suggest whilst you are waiting for the other users to reply with their experiences, you give the helpline a call and talk things through with one of the trained members of staff. Here you can share your concerns with someone who will offer you emotional support as well as practical information. The number to call is 0808 800 6000 and the lines are open Saturday 10 to 2pm and Monday to Friday 9 to 5pm.
Best wishes Sam, BCC Facilitator