Sally,
Here is the helpline information for bcc, if you wanted to ask for advice on your treatment and possible negligent actions. I suspect you are really tied up with what is important at the moment, your health and treatment plan, but maybe it could help provide some direction if you felt like taking action in the future..
https://www.breastcancercare.org.uk/information-support/support-you/someone-talk/call-our-helpline
Yes, I honestly don't blame you.....your case seems so strong....and it seems like you (certainly to the untrained legal eye , like mine) deserve recognition for this awful mess they have created. I say 'mess', its more serious than that isn't it - this is your life and health. There must be issues like mental anguish? Loss of earnings and so on ? Also, what if YOU hadn't kept pushing and pushing ?
I know that the ladies on the helpline here would be able to listen and point you in the direction of advice, if you feel your care is still not acceptable.
Oh Sally, just read your original post and now the follow-up. What a truly awful experience you've had, from start to finish. I honestly can't imagine how you have come through this mentally at all, with your faith in the medics so rocked and so many errors. You must be so physically and mentally drained, and I honestly don't know what I can say to make things any better for you. Do you feel that your care at this point in time, now after the surgery, is going ok? If not then are you at the point where you'd like to make a formal complaint?
Hi Sally
Bless you, that sounds like a horrible experience, I hope that now your treatment is properly under way that everything goes much more smoothly. But it's bound to shake your confidence in your treatment.
I had a few issues with my treatment, mainly caused by communication failures which caused avoidable delays in getting diagnosed. But it didn't make any difference to the outcome, just my stress levels! It does seem that getting more than one hospital involved is a potential problem area.
I hope your surgery went well and wish you a speedy recovery. There's lots of support on these boards from women going through the same experiences, I found it was a real godsend when I was going through treatment.
Sending you a hug, and I hope you recover quickly from the operation.