well I tried to find a snap of the dog to put on here but failed miserably. Found some of me but either they were a while ago and made me feel like a fraud (ie thinner and with lots of hair) or recent and I couldn't find one I would broadcast in public. I am hoping this annoyance about how I look will help me to do something about it. If you here of a whale spotted in the mediterranean this summer, it just might be me!!LOL. The tummy is just so bad, even though the extra weight has done wonders for balancing my chest back to normal. Trouble is some days I just think so what if I weigh more, just can't stick to it. Like you said Lisa its the weekends. i was very tired this weekend too and got up really late, which is unlike me. It is quite a bit more work having a lodger (my BIL) but he is very easy to have around. The hospital eventually discharged him at 10.35 pm with no painkillers or anything. Just said if you need a prescription you'll have to come back on MOnday and ask for one!! The ward are going to complain internally about the doc refusing to come to the ward to see him, as he had been put on a satellite ward. Still the surgery went well although he still has no idea what they did or had any advice. No appointment for the fracture clinic either! Just totally over-run by the extra injuries from the snow. He was told they had had 50 broken wrists instead of the usual 3 they see. Maybe lucky you haven't got more snow Lisa. I bet the dog loves all these walks. By the way good luck with the mammo on Monday. Mine is in April on the anniversary week of my surgery. Anyone else got appointments this week? Angie how many more rads do you have? Are you feeling any benefit from them yet? I hope they are kicking a...e for you.
good for you for even going to the class I say. Well done and each tiem will get easier. I laughed at what you said about your photo, I am having the same trouble.I have asked my onc to arrange keep fit classes locally for BC ladies whio don't feel up to going in to a regular gym and he has said he will. Guess I will have no excuse not to go to that if it goes ahead. Anyone know if I can start swimming yet? Nicky glad you had a nice meal out, even if you skated home. Will we see you making another tv appearance on the show??LOL. I have a lovely picture of the 'ski-ing holiday'trouble is I am focusing on the cakes as usual!Glad to hear you can get your ring back soon, mine is still tighter than it was but not strangling my finger any more.Are you managing to get to work with so much snow? My road was a nightmare, but ok if you could limp up to where the buses go through.Coming back down the slopes was worse though with all the parked cars to weave round. Kirsty you can have all my future snow, once was enough. Whereabouts do you live, I thought everyone got a bit of snow? Lorraine, this is good cake eating weather isn't it? Caramel shortcakes are my downfall, what is yours? Sorry did not get round to dresses as went to a weding fayre with my daughter. Guess what I was doing? Trying the cake samples!! Soooooo bad when I see cakes. Any ideas on a job yet? I am envious of the lie ins though, I never really appreciated them enough.
Angie hope this week goes well for you and that the rads are not too bad to endure.
Snow at last, been out with dog and think it does me good, think it would be a lot of thinking time but it keeps me occupied, albeit think I have snowburn on cheeks!!!! Hope it lays!!!
Not enough to build a snowman!!!
Angie - sure you are having a well earned rest today x
thanks for the advice re the weird crusting nipple. I will get it checked out for peace of mind.
My arm is much better than it was but I still have a swollen finger and thumb. The arm becomes uncomfortable if I have been using it too much as does the area around my back but not as bad as it was so time will tell.
Well I went back to a pilates class yesterday and was absolutely useless I was surprised how weak I was and how the exercises felt so weird now I am a bigger version of myself just feel bulky and uncomfortable. Still have to start somewhere and must learn patience.
I eventually managed to work out how to get a photo on only to discover it is too small I will try to put another one on a some stage. Although it is probably preferable that it is a postage stamp shot!
Love to you all but especially Angie and hoping you are feeling o.k.
Oh yes, loads of snow plus the joy of freezing overnight temperatures and no gritting outside our house! OH and I were at some friends last night with a group of us for dinner (which was absolutely fab by the way) and we walked home. Quite a challenge I can tell you and that's even with walking boots on! The roads where we had to cross were like an ice rink. Our garden is still covered by about 4 inches of snow and the possibility of more today or tomorrow! It's great if you don't have anything you need to do but a bit of a nightmare otherwise. However it is really pretty still and with the sun shining it really picks you up. In fact OH, YD and I went for a walk yesterday morning, got the papers and went into the local bakery for hot drinks and a cake - we sat outside in the sun and pretended we were on a ski-ing holiday! It certainly felt like it.
My hand is OK, not getting any worse but still the attractive reddish colour that I showed you when we met up Lily. It comes and goes in how puffy it is but it's pretty stable now so I will get my wedding ring re-sized soon so I can be married again! The palpitations have just about stopped except where I've had too many vino's, like last night, but I know that's my own fault so I put up with them. This is the one thing that has improved so much because almost straight after finishing chemo I went into them and it/they are so debilitating. Just keep popping those pills!
Hope everyone is having a good weekend and enjoying the cold snap even if it's not snowed. Back to reality tomorrow though! Take care all and hugs all round.
Another ps - I've realised what a dumbass I was with seeing the previous comments - you can scroll through them, duh! I did know this but somehow had forgotten, why on earth would that happen? Surely nothing to do with chemobrain?
I am sooooooo jealous, we have not had any snow and really want to build a snowman or have a snowball fight..... just to be a kid again for the day!!! 😉
A few of you have mentioned my photo. That was me on my wedding day in July 2007, just before going into church to say my vows. It was before i was diagnosed with BC. It reminds me of who i really am, someone who be can be a positive thinker, (if that makes sense!!!).
Hope you all have had a good weekend. ((((BIG HUGS)))) to those who need them.
Hi all, cant believe you all still have snow - we havent had any since last sunday night and believe you me we usually get it bad up here - it is cold mind!
Hope everyone having a okay diet - crap tv so eating far tooo much, was trying weight watchers points and doing okay, but loose it at weekend or when I feel down just much!! Dunno bowt everyone else but Ive worked a lot through it and been back full time since just before xmas but im suddenly sooo tired all the time, dont sleep too well and hit a tired period then wide awake at obsene hours.
Well off to flatten my hair in wooly hat and walk the dog - its freezing but no snow.
Hope everyone okay and Angie hope the rads went okay, think you have to wear a mask etc - hope it goes okay
sorry been a bit hectic trying to sort my BIL out. They can't get a doc to discharge him, so he is sitting there and we are sitting here waiting. They say they will still let him out even if after visiting hours. The doc has been in A & E all day and not made it to the ward. Why there is only one doc who can do this, remains a mystery as it is an enormous hospital. I have filled his fridge and freezer up today for when he goes back home with suitable one armed dinners - not easy! Next I have to sort his washing - not so keen on that bit !! Yikes hope there are no shocks! You all know what I mean.
Nicky has the snow started to clear? Ours took ages to go although being on the sunny side of the street ours cleared days before TTT, who is on the dark side. This is the first car I have had with traction, so I felt a bit safer on the ice this year. A tank would have been better still. I have a much busier week coming up at school, so must try to get enough sleep this weekend. It is still a hang over from the chemo that if I feel well I don't want to waste it sleeping.My tummy is slowly starting to accept small amounts of salad and fruit as long as I don't try both in the same day. This is the first week I haven't had to drink a glass of water during the night, so maybe my salivary glands are recovering too. Bev I was wondering if your arm is getting any better? Also Nicky, your hand and palpatations. Julia how is the burn now, hopefully ok.
Angie, how are you going on the rads? How many do you have? I have read some of the answers to both your threads and hope you have been heartened by their comments and stories of people who have made significant progress on WBR. They just don't know, they just work on averages for patients from historic data. One thing we know about you Angie, is that you are definitely not average.
angie, hope your sleeping hasnt been affected too much, and you at least get some peace from your worries then, be good to yourself, were all thinking of you.
hope the snow as not stopped you in your tracks. nicky i wish i could share some laughter with my hubby(re-snow fights) sometimes hes so serious at present, just how things are affecting him i suppose. mind you im not as keen on the snow at present, too cold for me. but keep sharing those precious moments, hubby and i will be back to walking when the weather improves. where is your moggy im dying to see him, is it a little thing with ribbons in her hair, like paris hilton would own? or a big one to keep you warm on cold nights. i used to have a cavalier king charles, i miss her all the time but hubby says were not having another.
hope you had a lie in, i know what you mean about not being able to open your eyes in the morning, i felt like that when i was at work, im appreciating being able to decide when to get up without rushing.(not rubbing it in!) next week i will probably put pic on of my dress, if nobody wants to party i will have one anyway.
everyone else have a good weekend.x
A quick p.s.
It's annoying that you only see the last comment when you reply which is why I thought it was a new page - realised it wasn't when my other posting appeared at the bottom rather than the top of a page.
Lovely description Lily! Surprised you didn't wander around topless for all to see LOL Glad you've survived a full week at work. It's quite a shock getting back into the old routine so it's not surprising you're starting a bit later. Hope you can enjoy the weekend and not be dashing around too much catching up with everything.
We've had loads of snow here all week. YD went to college once, Friday, and ED didn't go at all. Our lane is just covered and has not been cleared or gritted so driving out onto it has been fun. It took me about 20 times to get onto the road yesterday when I went to work - not a very suitable car for these conditions! I decided to only work the morning and I'm glad I did as we had about 2 hours of heavy snow again in the afternoon. I went up to Tesco to get my weekend supplies in and nearly couldn't get out of the car park even though I'd driven YD's car which is as low powered as you can get. OH came home early and wanted to go for a walk in the snow as he's been at work all week so we all went over the fields outside our house and had a snowball fight! It was really deep - about 6-8 inches and mainly undisturbed so looked very pretty. It's sunny here right now so another walk beckons and then some snow clearing so we can get the cars out if we need to. All this has interrupted my shopping/inspiration for YD's b'day so I will need to crack on next week. She has about 4 weeks to go so I should be OK - I hope. Glad BIL has got his arm/hand sorted (sorry can't remember which and daren't go back a page!). Hope you don't have to be nursemaid and he's on the mend soon.
As I can't remember what has been written by everyone on the previous page I'll just say hi and hope you all have a good weekend and rest when you need to and all look after yourselves.
Bev yes I have had something that sounds like that, similar to when I went topless for too long on holiday once!Mine was stuck on one side completely for a few weeks and is still tender. I guess the burn takes a while to go completely. Mine was green for a while!! I wouldn't worry, but obviously cannot see it. Lisa hope you can hang on to that positive mood to give your jangled nerves a little rest from all your worries. I bet it is cold up your way too. Gosh you have a lot of appointments to get through. Kirsty well done for getting through another week. I just finished my first full week but went in late as could not keep my eyes open when the alarm went off. I need to move my body clock round a bit as I have insomnia at night. Nicky it was sad to read through your secondary dx, which was before we all met up on here so we have not really appreciated what you have already gone through. What you wrote for Angie was very positive and I hope it makes you (Angie) feel as encouraged as I was by that. When is YD's birthday and also yours? Can't be long now. I still haven't got a picture either, need help I think!Did you get hit by the heavy snow this week? Will slow up your walking.
By the way BIl has had his op after being left for 36 hours waiting for a slot in theatre. It is looking good and he can move it again and feel touch. We have asked him to move in for a few days. Still waiting to hear what they did but he thinks they have put wires in rather than a plate. Trouble is wires have to come out! Lorraine you have everyone chatting about outfits now, will try to get on to some sites this weekend. Trouble is I will probably see something outrageously expensive and then want it for my daughter's wedding and actually have to buy it! Just did a full week at work but not a single lesson to teach. Mostly I was eating up the huge pink cake they bought for my birthday, no diet for me till all the chocs are gone from temptation.
Angie, hoping today went ok at rads and skin holding up. We are all thinking of you so much and sending messages of support. But you are such an upbeat person, I just wondered whether you would prefer us to lift our mood too. I sometimes find messages of sympathy make me more upset. So just let us know if you would prefer a different mood or if it would help you more, by us being more in tune with your battling the bu...r way of thinking. Don't forget to drink more on rads, as I got my sore, dry mouth back with it. I think they make you quite tired too so thinking of you snuggled up in the duvet letting the rays do what they are best at.
Angie - Thank you for letting us know how you got on.It is a brave and wonderful thing for you to do at this moment in time. My thoughts and preys will be with you and also your family, all the time. We will all be keeping are fingers and toes crossed for you and sending you lots of hugs. xxxxxxxxx
Lisa - well done on the weight loss. Do you have any good tips? I have put on two stone from being on treatment. Now i am back at work i need to start getting fit and losing the weight.
Bevy - My nipple also went crusty when i had radiotherapy. It wasn't sore, but i did get the nurse to have a look. More peace of mind than anything.
I have now managed to get through my second week back at work. Im not sure about anyone else who has been off work a long time and just getting back. It feels a little wierd, but good to be back to normality!!!!
Best wishes to everyone else and ((((BIG HUGS))))
Bevy you should get it looked at, hopefully its just dry stuff from rads, dot know as I didnt have nibble to blast.
Nicky and Lorraine , you are an inspiration in how you deal with things, I tend to get in a downer and worry about the slightest thing and then that in itself builds which gives me more symptons so I am sooo proud of you all. YOu are inspiring me to just try and monitor side effects and not dwell and try and life my life for today, I cant change what is going to happen and I shouldnt waste my time wallowing so Im having a wine and going to have an early night as my day off today consisted of picking my niece up, taking her to hospital for lunch with my dad on his break (yes, believe it or not, I visit of own free will, every1 knows me though think my dad must be boring them!!!) then played games and baked cakes!!
Bevy, the weight thing is hard, piled 2.5 stone on and if didnt have a hangover for most of this week I wouldnt have lost sooo much!! Well, also inmy drunken haze I banged my bad arm, its bruised and swelled more so think a sleeve is approaching.
Lily, sorry about your BiL sounds painful - hope work is going okay too but take it easy to.
Well, I have mamogram on Monday, lymphodema clinic week after, surgeon week after and then breast mri at 9am 3hrs away from where I live - good thing is might brave a holiday, chance to have a break with a friend and her hubby and another couple, might feel like a wally on tod but I can chill so will see
Angie, hope today wet okay and its not to hard, hope you still fighting and the plan to wed would be sooo nice for you - hope there's a glimmer and Im sure you will research it and hopefully you will defy their stats. Take care you and Tommy and speak soon. xxx
you would be wise to get things checked out, it may be something to do with treatment, but at least you would be reasured. sounds like you may need something for it anyway.
hope you get it sorted soon., take care x
Kirsty it was lovely to hear you being so positive about being back at work and resuming normal life good luck and enjoy!
Lily so sorry to hear about your poor brother in law I just couldn't believe it when you said the nurse needed to make a blue peter style sling what is happening to this country? hope he is feeling better poor guy.
Lisa hope you are feeling in better spirits and well done on the weight loss I wish I could do that I am trying but I just feel as if I have become a different person physically.
Nicky hope you are enjoying your week of no treatment
Angie hope you are feeling the support that is being sent your way we are all thinking of you and routing for you big time! take care but do what you want to and what feels right for you and Tommy.
I have had a bit of worry this morning as my right nipple as developed a yellowish crust over it? has anyone else had this happen? This is my surgery side. I wondered whether it was due to be dried out with the radiotherapy. There is no discomfort physically only mentally.
love to you all Bev x
especially angie, have you been offered a macmillan nurse to talk to
about your feelings etc. i know some people feel negative about seeing them but they are helpful. and have spoke to lots of people going through our situation, hopefully some with same diagnose as you who have done well. but you must be so scared, my thoughts are with you.
hope everyone else is enjoying snow, and wrapping up warm. x
Hi everyone and especially big hugs to Angie
As we've all said you are amazing being able to let us know what's going on - I don't know if I could have done it straight after my dx. OH and I felt as if we'd been hit by a sledgehammer when I had my 2ndary dx. We were in shock as we left the hospital and didn't let go until we got home. We had a good (bad?) cry and pulled ourselves together (a bit) and went for a walk. The hardest thing was telling my 2 girls and then my family. I couldn't face telling everyone face to face so used email to spread the news and get people to back off. I didn't know what would happen until I saw my onc a week or so later and that did re assure me with my treatment plan etc. I did a lot of looking things up on the internet and kept away from scary sites (yep, ostrich syndrome). This site was so invaluable and there are positive stories on here from ladies with brain mets - just go and search in Secondaries. Obviously there are bad stories as well but that's the nature of this site. The one thing I learnt is don't give in, be positive andlive for the moment - well, that's 3 things:-) I don't think of the future as such but set myself goals like my YD's 18th next month, Mum and Dad's 50th anniversary just after etc. I get scared at times and still cry at certain thoughts but I shove them to the back of my head. At the moment I feel well, apart from aches and pains so tend not to dwell on it but that's not so easy when you're having treatment I know. From what I've read on here WBR is very effectiveand the important thing is it breaks down the body/head chemo block if that's what it's called to allow chemo to work if you need it. Otherwise chemo doesn't reach the brain. I am thinking of you all the time and send you love, hugs and positive thoughts. Look after yourself and I hope Tommy is looking after himself as well as you.
To everyone else, I know I still don't have a picture! I will try at the weekend. By the way Lorraine it's a moggy not a doggy! May look at dresses later but should sort my 'normal' picture out 1st!
Sorry to hear about your BIL, Lily, bit of a shock for both of you I'd imagine - but, hey, you got to go to hospital again - lucky you!
Lisa, Bev, Julia and anyone else on here take care, hope the snow is going and letting you get on with the mundane things in life that seem to stop.
Will check again after I've been to work and see what I've missed out on this post as I've rushed through all the new ones.
Enjoy your shopping I might have a look tomorrow, specially seen as I never ever wear dresses as dont suit them and Im not girly but with money or size no object, could go mad, but shoes ohhhh yes!!! Im sure Angie knows that we are all thinking of her.
Hope everyone else bearing up
Hi to everyone reading (all always welcome on here|
Angie bless you for letting us know, even though we were all secretly holding out for something outrageously amazing like 'no problem we can sort this for you.'I think you should get a second opinion though if you feel up to it, maybe at Christies? I am not sure where is best in your area, it would be the Marsden down here.
How do you feel about the wedding, it would be a lovely thing to have ahead of you to think about and distract you with something nice and you already have your fab dress. You might need some time to think about it and you have not mentioned whether you are feeling poorly or ok at the moment, so hope this was not the wrong thing to say. If feeling ok you could be 'Mrs Angie' quite soon and have such a special day. I think Lorraine is already picking her outfit.I am constantly thinking of you, Tommy, your Mum and your Nanna too. I did read a bit and I know there are some slightly better bits in what the onc is saying to you to hang on to, even though overall it is such a terrible, almost unbelievable shock. I remember poor Paula and the speed of her progression still. I still believe that there are many people who defy odds all the time, every day and even when faced with 99% there is still one person smiling through, and we are all hoping that one will be you. I think you are probably having rads every day for about 5 days so hope they are not too bad and do their thing blasting that rotten thing to smitherines. Don't forget you can sometimes get on US trials too, so worth looking at. Can I help in any way? Big hugs sweet x
I have had a really busy day, at work poodling about when the office phone rang and it was 'Nurse Brown from accident & emergency.' Sent my heart jumping right through my mouth wondering who now. My brother in law had slipped on ice, broken his wrist, passed out in the street and then really snapped his arm and nosedived into a bus shelter. Poor old thing had a swan's neck shaped fracture and it had cut off nerves and blood supply so they had a very narrow window to save his hand as no feeling in it. He is looking rather battered and in hospital awaiting a slot in surgery for plates and screws and the nerve to be released, as they are over run with broken limbs this week. They had no slings to hold his arm up so I watched in disbelief as the nurse cut up a pillowcase and used sticky plaster to make one and then hung it over a hook and stand. Sat with him for a while, then had to rescue his car, buy him some more PJs and dressing gown, drive car back to his, get clothes, etc then back to hospital tonight.He was not exactly at ease with a man vomiting in the bed next to him, another patient letting their toddler scream all the time and his arm tied up in a pillowcase.
Tank top terror got me on the neck in a 2 arm attack again when i got home, what a c..p day.
Angie still lots of great moments out there, go get them
its me again, i do hope we have this party. ive been having a look at some designer dresses, so strange when moneys no object, theyres so many reduced. i am determined not to be cheap, i cant have you all being more flash than me.
i know im going mad but just humour me.
its great! ive never been able to look at dresses for a thousand quid before, and not even bother if they fit or not.
goodnight everyone back to my shopping.x
i know its not the best time at the moment with angies news. but i was thinking, seeing as its about a year from treatment for most of us, what about having an online party. i think it would be good fun.
we now have pic facility so we could pick a dress online and put it in the pic space and have a good chat about our choices. we could even invite some girls of the other threads.
with having the pic facility we could use our imagination and have some fun. you could even bring along a celebrity, anything goes.
i think it would have to be arranged for a couple of weeks, with everyone feeling so low. let me know how you feel. and dont for one minute think im not feeling angies pain, cos shes never far from my mind. goodnight god bless. x going dress hunting. just think price is no obstacle, i may even get some jimmy shoes.
Everyone is welcome on this thread and angie I hope it shows how much people do care, I knnow it must be hard for you to write but I soooo admire you, you are soo brave, strong and I know you will try everything possible to extend your prognosis. You have a very strong relationship with Tommy and Im sure you will try to enjoy the time you have together.
Youve offered sooo much support to people on herethat everyone will be here for you to blast off, cry, anything.
Hope the rads werent too bad and that they make some improvements - are you in pain? You know Dr D gives it straight but also hope he had some optimism about trails etc. Is there any chance of operating or anything , sorry could be talking crap but dont know any of your symptoms or how on hells earth this could have happened to you so soon after chemo.
So sorry, you are in my thoughts and prayers constantly - get some rest and sorry about the hair xxx
I've not posted on this thread before but I was diagnosed about 2 months after you and have read your posts- you always seemed a lighthearted and positive bunch on here but I didn't want to intrude on your thread.
Brain mets seems to be the one that everyone dreads, but after a scare I had a few months ago (which lasted a while) I started going to the BCmets website and there's loads of 'feel-good' stories on there. It depends exactly the mets are etc. but there's loads of people who have had miraculous results from WBR etc. Please look!
Please remember that loads of people are thinking about you and wishing you all the luck in the world even if you don't know us.
hi angie, it was so good to see your post, it must be really hard for you to think straight at the moment, never mind think of others as well, but that shows what a kind considerate person you are.
keep the hope in your heart and enjoy the time you spend with tommy, doing things you enjoy.
be kind to yourself, and do anything that makes things easier for you. you have been in my thoughts each day, and i hope the treatment goes well and doesnt make you feel too rough.
i have an appointment with onc on the 18th feb, to discuss results from scan, im thinking hopefully its good news because he doesnt seem in a rush. hope my positive thinking doesnt get me in a mess again, because i felt like that before diagnoses and then i had a shock. but im not worrying anyway. you need to get some designer wellies for all this snow we are having. the other year i went sledging with children but even thats out now, incase i tumble and break anything. aghhhh!
hi there, i didnt know you had a doggy it will be nice to see him. i keep having trouble with my pics again, i never know what people are seeing because its always different on my profile.
everyone take care x
Dear Angie what a brave young woman you are to come on here and let us all know how things are going. We have all had you constantly in our thoughts and in our hearts and will continue to do so. Can't say anymore as words are just too inadequate but my prayers are with you tonight and will be every night.
love Bev xx
Thank you so much for your kind words, they really do help. Tommy and I are just reeling and in shopck still really. We saw the head onc today and I've had a blast of rads to the whole brain and am having another one tomorrow which they're pretty optimistic about. The hardest thing was giving my mum the prognosis bascially an average life span of a year now. Needless to say I'm asking about trials, using homeopathy and plain bein hopeful. I'm just not ready to give up yet and neither is Tommy.
I'll probably loose my hair again as a side effect of the whole brain radiotherapy though.
So it's really not good news but it's not just weeks either and how ever long Tommy and I have got together we're going to make the most of it.
This does bring back close memories of Zotam's lisa too, and I found a post from her back in November, it seems that the chemo's had worked so I'm holding onto every ray of hope there is.... In between bouts of shock.
Nicky, how do you just get over the shock when you're told about the secondaries, it feels like it'll never pass right now.
Thanks so much for your love everyone.
I'm going to try and relax for a bit now.
I seem to get them every now and then but also worse in the morning. I think we are all really stressed still from all of our treatments and what we've been through. I think (hope) mine is part stress - which I hope to get sorted with my complementary therapy when the snow clears so I can get there - and part medication. The threads on Arimidex do seem to point out all the aches and pains so I don't think what I get are unusual. As you've said though we're all so worried about Angie and that can't help. Look after yourself.
Thinking of you, Angie
I hope you all don't mind me butting into your thread but I've just come across Angie's devastating news. Although we haven't met if my memory serves me I tnink we both had the same breast surgeon at Carlisle. I feel so gutted for her as she had just finished treatment and was getting back on her feet.
Angie, I really hope Carlisle can sort you out. With no disrespect to Carlisle I chose, for personal reasons, to have my treatment at Christies in Manchester which is a centre of excellence in the North.
If you want to pm me I can give you more information.
My thoughts are with you today
Hi Nicky, glad you are doing well. Are you still getting headaches, I seem to get them first thing and stay most of day so starting on the paracetomal to see if it helps things along, could be just stress and worry as well as pills and been really upset since Angie's very sudden news.
Good luck Angie xx
Good to hear from you Kirsty, lovely photo. Glad to hear you're back working and getting on with things as well, keep in touch when you can.
Love all the dog photos everyone is putting on, I think mine will have to be my moggie, just need to get a decent one of her though.
Lily - no treatments this week thank goodness. I have had a GP's appt though so not missing out on the medical experience too much! Just checking BP, organising a blood test for cholersterol - yes, that's up atm, and stockpiling any tablets I need before my pre-paid runs out next week and before we get the new exemption certificate! Anyway got my money's worth out of the appt! I think he was glad to see me as it was Monday and we were pretty much snowed in round here but I'm able to walk to the surgery so a bit of exercise as well. I have treatment the Monday after next and usually it's straighforward but still means I have a morning taken away. Hope you're coping with the weather. Also, did you get the message about the thread you'd been looking for from me? I'm not sure if it 'worked'.
Lisa - definitely getting aches and pains and trying not to panic so I know where you're at. Just about everything I had done or taken can cause them so I'm keeping an eye on things and hope to get some scans in the next month or so to check me out. Otherwise feeling good and have kept the weight off since my 'ablation diet' in December. You're sounding really good so I hope everything is going well for you.
Lorraine - have you heard yet, as Lily says, about your scans? Hope the waiting hasn't been too hard and the results are good.
Bev and Julia - hope you are OK.
And dear Angie, I will be thinking about you and Tommy all day. I hope you get to see the onc and the weather doesn't stop things. You must be desperate to know what is going to be planned for you and to get on with things. Will have everything crossed for you and when you're ready please let us know how it went.
Love and hugs to all
Hi Kirsty, lovely photo and nice to hear from you, we sound at similar stages, Im back full time with the short spiky look too, bit messy at times albeit! So glad you are feeling better, Ive lots of niggles and scary moments especially hearing Angie's news.
Hope everyone else is okay with the niggles, tiredness and treatments, Ive been feeling ropey and off my food but that's after effects of a very heaving drinking weekend which I dont think is good for me, soo trying tobe more healthy and scared the BRCA1 gene could be doing bad things to me. Lost 13lb though x
Sending the best vibes possible for you Angie and understand you might not be even up to reading posts but if you are we are all routing for good news at Carlisle tomorrow and hopefully treatment as soon as possible xxxxx
I agree, I am thinking of Angie too all the time, it has shaken me right up, so Angie I cannot imagine how you are feeling. Hopefully having lots of big hugs from your nearest and dearest. I will be thinking about you and your appointment tomorrow and hope you will feel up to posting to let us know how you get on. We understand this is difficult for you, if you can't. I think I would get a second opinion just for reassurance. Sending all the luck in the world your way and hoping for some positive action from the onc. Good luck Angie.
Kirsty it was good to hear you are at work now and is that you in the picture,such a lovely photo? Julia love the woof, perhaps I will put mine on too. Nicky are you coming up to another treatment or did I miss it. Sorry if I did and hope they found a vein easily this time. Lorraine I have also forgotten to ask about your results, so sorry. If you have them back, I hope they were ok. Please let us know how you got on. Our road is still thick ice and very slippy and we are at the bottom of a hill, so having to be very careful walking and driving. Take care
It has been a very long time since being on the site. I have just found that it as all changes......WOW!!!! Luckly i have found the thread which has carried on from the old site.
So hello and (((((((BIG HUGS))))))) A bit late but Happy New Year, unless you are chinese!!!
The reason i was thinking of you guys is because i have been writing a diary about my own experience of BC. I was just going through the diary tonight and tomorrow will be a year to the day that i was diagnosed. In the diary i have also written how much this site as helped me cope and get loads of good advice, with Chemo and Radio. So yet again i would like to give you all a big THANKS 🙂
I am now back at work and feel good to be back behind my desk and feeling i am on the road to recovery. Only working part time at the moment as i still get tired in the afternoon. It was strange going back for the first time and funny when people had to look twice at me. The last time some of them saw me i had long hair, now i am going in with short spiky hair. No wig or hats in sight and feeling proud!!!! 🙂
I won't go on anymore. Hope you are all well and best wishes to those who are still having treatment.
Good luck tomorrow Angie, we'll all be thinking of you and sending positive thoughts.
Looks like Lily and I are lagging behind now in the photo stakes. Will see what I can do.
Take care everyone, all of our support for Angie and each other is still so much needed.
Nice photo - might have to put my pooch on - bless they were discussed enough when we had the old Hair thread, about pincing their cast offs.
Every thing crossed for some good news for Angie tomorrow x
Hi: Hey got a picture on - not the one I wanted but it worked, just got to work out how to change it now. By the way, that is Carrieann, the chemo, etc, hasn't changed me that much!!!
I think we are all sitting and waiting to hear how Angie gets on with the onc tomorrow. Please God let it be good news.
We are all with you Angie.
Love and hugs
Looks like the right pictures are back!
Angie hope the Onc appointment goes as well as can, I know you must be devestated but I also know you have already done a lot of research on the parp trial and hopefully this could be a good avenue to go down, albeith Im not that up to date on it. Really hope the steriods have at least sorted out any pain but to be honest cant remember if you were in pain or not.
Hope everyone else okay, bit quiet on here but hard to know what to say at mo and dont feel like being jolly as Angies news has hit me hard
Lorraine there are yellow flowers on the the contact message you sent me.
Angie thinking of you and Tommy. Have you got a list of your questions to take with you, as it is hard to take it all in and remember things on the day. Sure you must have so much you want to ask. A lady in our area got onto a US trial so that is an avenue to think about as they are so far ahead of us. We are all praying the onc will lift your spirits with his plan of action. When do you start rads? Please lean on all of us if it helps in any way.
Hugs all round everyone
thanks for your help, but i think there must be a problem, because i had the picture i wanted in the space at the bottom of the page, and it was showing under my name, but wasnt on the posts. i can see balloons at my end, dont know how you can see teddy. aghhhhhhhhhhhh.,
difficulties again. i suppose we should be glad to have any pictures better than previous when you couldnt.
Youve got the bear and flowers back on. You need to go to your profile and edit and then select another picture at the bottom of page - I think so anyhow.
Love to everyone x
p.s. maybe a problem as my old picture back on too and I changed it the other day.
hi everyone, still having problems with site, tried changing pic on last message to angie, thought balloons were not appropriate but it didnt work, anyone know why?
hope the rest of you are behaving yourselves, speak to you all later x
Oh Angie what can we say words cannot express the feelings of sadness for you going through this and the support we want to be able to give to you. You are a tough cookie and need to call upon all your reserves to deal with this bloody unfair situation. My thoughts are with you and your family and if there is anything we can do research etc then please let us know how to help. Thinking of you and sending as many positive vibes as possible.
all my love Bevy x
Angie, know you probably have a lot to deal with at moment but just wanted to know that we are all thinking of us and understand you might not want to post at mo! Here when you want to vent and talk xx
i too am so sorry to hear about your recent discovery, you must be feeling so low, i hope and pray for you and your family that you will be given the strength to fight like you have always done. i think it is probably part of the disease we all dread, but nowadays there is probably so much they can do. at the moment you need the love and support of all those close to you, and please dont be tempted to isolate yourself. you are in my thoughts im giving you a big hug, i hope you can imagine all of our healing thoughts coming your way., sometimes it doesnt matter how many people are around you can still feel alone, please dont hide how you feel, sharing is what gets us through this.
i know you may not believe in god at this present moment, but i do and im asking him to take care of you, and give you comfort and if possible healing. forgive me if i offend you by saying this.
love and prayers lorraine x
i hope ive managed to change my picture to a bunch of flowers for you x
Lovely Angie: What terrible news, you must be devastated. Just as it seemed we were all moving on to something vaguely resembling normal. This really is a b*****d s****y disease - fill in the stars!!
As the girls have said, we are all with you and Tommy and will support you both in any way we can.
I know you would say – information is all – so no doubt you will be doing your research, and, as Lily says, get a second or even a third opinion to make absolutely sure of where you are going.
Take good care of yourself.
Love and hugs
I am sorry to read of your diagnosis. As well as the support you are receiving from your fellow forum users you may find the Secondary resources pack helpful. It can be found following this link:-
Also if you If you feel you need to talk to someone in confidence then please give the helpline a call, the staff here are all either breast care nurses or people who have personal experience of breast care issues. The number to call is 0808 800 6000 the lines open Monday to Friday 9am - 5pm and Saturdays 9am - 2pm.
I hope this is of some help to you.
Sam (BCC Facilitator)
Oh my God Angie. I am so so sorry and sad to hear what's happened. You must be in a truly scary place right now and I do know how you must be feeling. You will get some good info and support from the secondaries forum as there are several ladies on there with brain mets. From what I've read, and I'm sure you have, it seems like rads definitely help and if chemo is needed the rads help the chemo do it's job. I guess you don't know everything just yet about what treatment you will get but I hope it's sorted quickly and you don't have any more problems before you start rads, steroids will help even though you won't want to be on them.
Thinking of you and Tommy and will be giving you all the support I can.
Take care hun
God, dont know what to say I havent stopped crying since I read your post Angie and just want you to know Im thinking of you and if you need anything at all you know where we are - Im so sorry you collapsed to must have been very scary and hope you havent got any pain. I hope the meeting with Onc gives you more answers about the parp trial.
p.s. Lily hope you had nice birthday