Hello all we had a lovely time. We arrived at our friends place and were quite surprised. Here several of our friends got together and chipped in to surprise us. They had been planning it for a month. There was roses, cake with a bride and groom topper, and a booklet of events in 1982! There was balloons and Happy Anniversary banners, along with gift cards for sticky buns at the local bakery, another gift card to a sandwich shop we like and $250 in mad money! We didn't expect any of this! It was very hot and humid on Friday and Saturday. It got cooler each day. Sunday we were able to have my best friend and his wife over. Monday on our anniversary we went out for a late breakfast and then a nice dinner. Dinner was excellent, but we ended up at a chain steak house that we could have went to at home. I was disappointed that it wasn't a little nicer of a place but it is off season at the shore and most of the finer restaurants were closed on Monday! Carolyn dessert was excellent and was this layered chocolate yummy with chocolate mousse, chocolate cake, chocolate crumb base, a chocolate fudge like filling, chocolate icing with chocolate curls on it, and vanilla ice cream with a chocolate drizzle all over ice cream and cake thing. I thought of you with every bite! When we got back to the house things went down hill! Ross took our dog out, Maggie crossed over in front if him he took a quick step not to step on her and hit uneven payment and went down. He has road rash on both knees, down his legs, top of one foot and big toe, and his elbow. He said he jarred himself so heard that he though t he collapsed lung at first. His back and ribs still hurt. Last night was the first he could lay down and sleep. He has been sleeping sitting up on the couch! He refused to go to the hospital, but now admits he is sure he should have. I said well you can still go! He refuses! He says, no need to that he is slowly getting better! Luckily at our friends place she is on the bay side on a channel. You walk right out her door onto the deck and the water is rght there. You can sit in the living room and see the water, so we just sat and enjoyed the water front, and played games! Important part we were together! It was very relaxing! Came home and WOW did the rest of the leaves pop out! I really wanted to spend the weekend working outside! It is pouring and we are in a cold snap!! Going to be below freezing at night!! I'm bummed because I really wanted to work on some outside things before I start the new meds. Outside is my happy place! FF
Welcome back FF, hoping you had a fab time away and a great anniversary celebration 🎉🍾, also that it has left you feeling rested and ready to face your new treatment.
Janette - great news, definitely a few vino collapso's neede this weekend 😊
Corey - great news from you too. Does this mean you are a stable Mabel as well or is it news that what a dr thought was SBC isn't? Sorry, if I haven't remembered, lots going on on this thread all the time!
Hi to all other mets ladies, hope you are coping with SEs and the treatments are doing their job.
Hi everyone! I'm home descending tired! Trying to catch up!
Welcome Suze and Wendy! You have joined a great bunch here! Hope it is helpful to chat!
Janette, Fantastic Stable Mable!! Toot toot!!
Corey, That is amazing!! Long may it last!!
I'm not o. Denosumab but I think I might end up on it once I've had scan results. I was told yesterday that my leg pain is because of a slipped disc in the area where one of the Mets is and there's no calcium in my blood. The cancer wouldn't have been found without the slipped disc.
Oh Corey, that is such wonderful news! Wow! I am so pleased for you! It really cheers me up to read good news.
Hugs and best wishes (you can relax for 6 months now). Barton.x
Hi Corey. That's great news, I'm so pleased for you. Enjoy the summer (tho I know you work hard). How's the young donkey? B xx
good morning ladies,well yesterday i had to get my results of my pet/ct scan.sat in the waiting area like a shivering jelly ,wondering what oncologist was going to say.after half an hour delay i was called in and im still in shock but very pleased to say that im completely clear of cancer.the area in my sacrum didnt even highlight this time and im clear every where else. he gave me a copy of the report and im glad about that as i sat there in complete shock (think i had my mouth open all the time)and came out still gob smacked.he dosent want to see me for 6 months then i will have a scan just to check up on things.so im over the moon.its happy days here still cant believe it.carolyn do you think the snail wanted to be painted, i think that snail has big plans to go to glastonbury lol.take care love coreyxx
Colour-coordinated snails! Is that the latest fashion now - snail catwalk, here we come! Great, Carolyn! Congratulate hubby for me - a great invention.
Thank you Carolyn. I needed a laugh. Feeling v emotional today, receiving lots of hugs and kisses from.colleagues. didn't sleep well, then we got the call. Ofsted are in tomorrow and possibly Thursday. Just what I needed more stress. Have had bath and lying with leg up. Fingers crossed we'll pass tomorrow and we can celebrate Thursday.
Keep the funnies coming. I'll share some of our lovely children's funny quotes one day. X
Yes, I should have thought of just saying "hip problems" will try that now! Like the comment about the vodkas though but no idea where that answer would lead!
I take letrozole (no probs so far touch wood), denosumab, and calcium/vit D (also had radiotherapy and just before that mastectomy (for 2nd primary which is not responsible for the mets!) but denied reconstruction!!!!!). I am a bit further east than you, but I suspect our name is the same - something about being born in the 50's. Agree full time work is the key but with fractured pelvis I thought it a step too far!!!
I cried this morning, v.v. unusual for me: I was watching the short video of the 12 year-old would-be funeral director on the BBC front page on my PC. Not sad tears but you know when something touches a heart string. I was thinking how it would be for my kids to talk with someone so young about practicalities. I know I am unusual in not thinking these things are morbid.
Hi B. I did look at side effects yesterday because I had indigestion. They're similar to extremesine which I had after Tamoxifen. I struggled with Tamoxifen as very nauseous but wasn't too bad on extremesine. The aches and pains are horrible and I have to keep reminding myself that they're probably just that aches and pains. I have scoliosis as well so some of it is posture. I have to keep straightening myself. Good to hear from you. S x
Hi Wendy. It's scary but there's a lot of support. I alternative between positive and weepy moments. I'm back in school tomorrow and generally hit the ground running as soon as I arrive so being busy should help. I'm not going to be a martyr though. Ill stay off if I'm ill. I had my reconstruction eight years ago and glad I did as it helps me feel shapely. I have friends who decided against it and I understand why. Cancer has no respect and it is what it is. We just have to find why's to outwit it.
Pippin, we have so many similarities. Yes state pension at 66 and I will be claiming it. We're going to Carfest. As I'm 60 this year (and I mistakenly thought 10 years clear) I've been doing 60 things I've never done before. The festival is one of them. What meds are you on? I'm finding waiting for more test results is bad especially as I'm very impatient.
Carolyn, I love your SOH. That's just the kind of thing I'd say.
Hi Suz, I'm sorry you've had to join us here but you sound very positive and going to a music festival sounds great, You said you hadn't read about the side effects of letrozole but if you start getting new aches and pains it might account for some of them. I don't take it but I take exemestane which has similar though perhaps not as severe side effects. The aches and pains spook me from time to time but often turn out not to be C
Hugs B xx