Oh dear Nathali, my car was shiny newish and a bit boxy, but I liked it the way it was....not minus a wing mirror and with added adjusments to its shape! Could have done without it.
ladies, I reported it on 101 but thought more afterwards...Was it Crissy who said no claims wont be affected...sorry, but they always raise the charge and youd never know why. i know a really lovely, efficient panel beater who has quoted less than £1000 to me...but the first thing he said to me was...'oh, you couldnt have picked a worse colour ....and I knew because id ordered the car...and knew all about the different levels or layers of paint if this happened...and i said so to The dealers...but they said..oh, no, just quote the number...and I actually told them that it would be a problem...but decided to take it anyway...
well..its a problem..but what the hell, I can just about afford it now...but the bggr who did it...I missed his number plate as he sped off and i'd pulled into a lay by thinking hed stop -ba*t*rd....that he was.
the other thing I will say is that most of the chemos we are on - and also post rads.....its a bit risky to be in sun too much....I'm careful.
I too suffer from 'magnum' addiction but am fighting that one, as I told my wonderful onc id try and have less sugar...and ladies...did you read the articles re alcohol for bc persons...this week?
apparently 1 glass of wine daily can up your recurrence risk by 15% and if you are already recurrent....by more. i just know many of you wont like it being mentioned, ( i had two glasses at church last week) but
i do think alc might add to the sugar load ..........anyway, you all know I care about all of us.......so do what you like X But be aware!
much love and hugs
its lovely to see some long timers(nearly wrote old!) still on here mixed in with some I don't recognise but that's because I've not been on for ages. How are we all doing?
im doing ok - day by day - a few set backs but still working and keeping busy. Just wanted to let you know that although I'm not on very often now I still think of you all on a daily basis.
Well, The predictive text sure gave every one a gigle or two, including me!
I enjoyed a Magnum ice cream when we were in vacation, and a Klondike bar, and a chocolate chip cookie ice cream sandwich with m & m 's on it, and ......! I was a bad one!! I just don't buy that stuff because it would drive me crazy! I'm still working on this weight. I have made the halfway mark of what I think I want to lose. If I accomplish this it will be 110 pounds off! I actually lost a lot of weight back in 2011-2012 changed meds, gained it all back except 20 lbs. So from my heaviest I would have 130 off when finished. Losing the next half will depend on my skin looks. I can't afford surgery to fix my skin.
The drop reminds me of a Hershey Kiss! Big chocolate attack going on! Luckily no chocolate in the house! FF
Afternoon ladies, hope you're all keeping well and enjoying the weekend.
FF, I've never been to a "willy wedding"......that would be an experience! 😂
Weather a bit hit and miss here in Manchester today, still very warm though.
Carolyn, I've also been at the Magnums.......love em!
I'm off into Manchester City Centre tomorrow for a meal and a few cheeky cocktails and wine, it's our wedding anniversary Monday so meeting our son and partner. I am going to take some flowers to lay in St Anns Square for all those beautiful people who lost their lives last Monday, I'm still in disbelief that this terrible thing has happened!
Hey, I forgot to mention last week that I got a shiny new car! Needed to change to an automatic as the clutch was playing havoc with my hip, motobility were really good about me swapping early, just told me to go and choose another car and I wouldn't be hit with an early termination penalty because I needed to change for medical reasons.
Hugs Janette xxxx
I notice you are a community champion, whats that?
Oh sorry to hear that the rash is the meds. Perhaps I need to start getting a spray tan. I may have to pay double as there is a lot to spray. Or get actor 50 sun screen.
Magnum ice cream, I love magnum ice cream.
I am trying to loose weight to take some of the strain of my knees and hip, which are arthritic.
When I was on Anastrozole I piled on the weight. I was constantly filling my face with rubbish, comfort food,
I have stopped buying the temptations, like magnums, crisps and choccy bics. How long this will last is anyones guess, but I must give it a go.
Just off to get myself a lovely apple without any toffee on it (lifts a bitch at times).
Take care xxxxx enjoy the sun in beautiful Devon.
Now i've started you can't get me off here.
I sat in the garden for a couple of days this week and suffered for the first time with prickly heat rash. Which drove me mad all that itching. Took piriton which helped.
I even had the rash in places that had not been exposed.
I have never had to use sun creams before as I go brown quite quickly. I am on tamoxifen and have the 4 weekly injection of Denosumab. Not sure if I have developed a sun allergy or could it be the meds?
One good thing about changing meds, I feel so much better since coming off Anastrozole, I didn't realise how bad the side effects were until about 3weeks ago, after being of them for 4 weeks.
The aches and pains and stiffness in all my joints, (except the arthritic ones which are not as bad as they were) has gone. No side effects with Tamoxifen or injections so far. Fingers crossed.
Hope you all have a great weekend, it's just started raining in Birmingham xxx
Hi Stripey, I joined the group a few weeks ago. I think the first post of mine went itno detail.
It was a great help putting all that's happened down on the forum. I felt a great sense of comradery with people who understand what we all are going thru. I think I am one of the oldest on here at 68, primary in 2013 secondry bone diagnosed about 7 weeks ago.
I went for my annual mot in march and went for the results 2 weeks later. The mammogram was fine.
I told my oncologist that I was having problems with my right hip and my doctor said it was arthritus. My oncologist sent me for a bone scan to check that it was.
The result was that the hip was infact arthritus but my spine and scull showed bone cancer. Whiich she said had probably been there 2 years. I just put the achy back and neck down to old age.
The time it had been there and the end of my breast cancer treatment it appears that I was only 18months free of cancer. My oncologist said that sometimes it doesn't put markers in the blood until it has established itself.
I was a mess until about a week or so ago and got up one morning and felt that life had gone back to being normal. I haven't cried or felt sorry for myself for days. People on the forum said it would come and they were right. (no antidepressants)
See what happens when you get started writing on this forum, Its theraputic. You just get carried away.
I pop into the forum every few days to see how you are all doing.
Thanks for being out there, Love, hugs and kisses to you all xxxx
Me too - Willie wedding! Ha!
Moijan - I know it's a horrible hassle that you could do without, but I think you really ought to report the accident to your insurer and definitely the PO - he should not be allowed to get away with that! Anyway, it's up to you, and I know how irritating dealing with insurance companies can be. Best of luck, whatever you decide to do.
Bon - love the "drop". I had mentioned the Delamore exhibition to my sister the other week, but she has been before and didn't think a great deal of it, so we didn't go.
A willie wedding made me laugh. I think you must have been thinking about other things when you typed that FF. It has rained in the night, a bit misty but still lovely here. It's good to see everyone living 'normal' lives. Maybe you're all Mancunians as well - no fear here. My main worry now is wearing the dress tomorrow as the weights sneaking up since I started on tablets. I was the same with Tamoxifen. Suppose I'll have to cut down on treats. X
Today I went to the art exhibition at Delamore House which is quite near Plymouth on the edge of Dartmoor with my dear friend Rosie. Much of the exhibition is in the garden so it was an absolute delight on such a lovely day.
This is called 'Drop'
Sorry to hear about your collision Moijan and that he drove off!
Wellie wedding sounds cute. Writing and illustrating children's books! I'm impressed! Mine would be boring! No talent with words! Going off to a little cottage, very relaxing. Just going to a picnic! Hoping for a sunny gardening day and want to do some power washing! It has been cold and rainy here for days!! Also had a few extremely hot days! This week coming we are supposed to have some nice days! Very behind in doing outside work. Not doing a veggie garden this year. Need to make a better fence to keep the deer out. Last year they even ate my tomatoes. Money is short so hoping later in the summer that things might be better and maybe we can work on a garden fence for next year. Just going to have to play in my flowers. Have had a few fun times lately. We went away for our anniversary, then did the whale watch, baseball game and a picnic last weekend, surprise dinner Tues. night with my daughter's friend from Atlanta. (Our extra kid) He was about an hour away on business so called for all of us to meet for dinner. We don't get to see him very often, so if he is in the area we jump at the chance. We also have been going to a few parks, and just enjoying some little walks and a few snacks. We want to get out enjoying nature more.Have a good weekend!
Moynihan, Report the accident to the police and postal service. The postal service should know who would be in that area and be able to check vehicles for damage. I agree wigs are to hot in the summer! I used to wear just a bandanna on my head. I went to a store and bought them in the men's department. I had a rainbow of colors. We have a picnic on Sunday. It's a holiday weekend here, so no work on Monday! I also don't work Tues., so a 4 day weekend.
Morning ladies, off to a cottage in Wales today, when I get my act together. Having a slow morning and didn't help forgetting to take my lenses out!
Enjoy the lovely weather. We're booked on a canal barge ride tomorrow and a welly wedding on Sunday. Got my sparkly wellies ready but don't really want to splash them so hoping rain will stay away.
Have a good weekend everyone xx
Stripey, the hug expands or shrinks to fit all sizes! I'm sure you aren't as big as me (no, I am NOT saying!).
I think you hit the nail on the head re worrying - not only do we have our own symptoms, se's and treatments to worry about, but we also have to be careful about how much we share with our loved ones. It is a strain sometimes. I have found a good friend in Carolyn on this site, and we meet for coffee (and "extras"!) quite often. As we are in a very similar situation, we share a lot of stuff and get a lot off our chests, that we couldn't do with relatives.
Like you, I don't have children, for which I am extremely grateful. I can't imagine the worry of their futures.
Hugs (expanding ones, if necessary), and best wishes. Barton.x
Hi Jellytot, it's a while since I had my rads but I remember being told not to use a bath lily and simple soap. Nothing perfumed. I used aloe vera gel as well. Also, tried to wear cotton clothing. I know when my mum had the big blast on her back, she was in pain for the first day and I know you've already been warned of this but the hospital sent her home without painkillers so make sure you get a prescription. Be kind to yourself and rest. Xx
As you know am starting on 4 weeks every weekday of rads to sternum and ribs next week. Any tips muchly welcome! I have people driving me which is lovely, they've worked out a rota and everything! Will I be able to work around it or will I be too knackered (or is it all down to the individual)? What should I use on my skin for soothing, I think I used Aloe Vera gel before but it was 3 years ago so I can't remember 😞 What about showering/baths etc? Should have asked all these questions at my planning meeting yesterday but I was in mega overwhelm xxx
Carolyn, I'm OK. Just sick of cancer and I don't want to talk about it everyday. Will probably be on here less over the summer!
I hope all of you are doing OK! Our weather has been disappointing. Either cold or hot. Where is the in between?
Off to work I go. Holiday weekend coming up! Picnic time!! FF
Thanks Janette. Sorry I think I didn't write it properly. It's a one hit wonder on the hips and then every single weekday for four weeks on the sternum/ribs. I will defo be getting some painkillers in xxx
JT yay! So glad you have a plan and feel a bit brighter.
Stripey welcome! I'm also 39 (yikes! Less than a week until my change of decade!) 😅 And had primary in 2012. As I said to JT before, make the most of all the pampering and comforting that friends want to do as there is not much they can do. Anyway, I'm also the very hungry caterpillar!! Cant stop eating and the fact that we have had so many birthdays in work doesnt help!
re Manchester attack... I've been crying all morning... have two girls 10-11... took them to the MEN arena to watch disney on ice a few years ago... just hearing the parents and kids breaks my heart... the fact that i've got hormoness flying around doesnt help!
big hugs xxxx❤️❤️❤️
Definitely Barton, I can focus on fighting rather than dwelling in the dark dark place I was in just a few days ago xx
Hello stripey, welcome, but sorry you have had to join us! Glad you are sounding quite positive - keep it up! I'm glad we made you smile! I'm like you, a comfort eater! Not good for the waistline.
Well done with your first post!
Oh, JT, that is good news! So glad, too, that you are feeling brighter and more positive. It's very difficult, I know. Now you have a definite plan in place, you have something else to focus on. Keep in touch.
Just been for my rads planning appointment, got some new dotty tattoos to add to my 2013 ones.
Rads start in a week, glad they're getting me going soon. The sooner I can start zapping the bone blighters the better!
Special hi to Stripey! Have you got your treatment plan yet? xx
Welcome Stripey! Happy you already found comfort and amusement by joining! Carolyn, Is definitely the class clown and chocoholic!! Me, I'm the innocent type! Hugs, FF
JT, Wonderful t h at you have a plan! Pleased to read that you got out of the house and enjoyed some dinner! One foot in front of the other!
Manchester news! Heartbreaking, appalling, cowardly!! Why? Children are innocent!! Stay safe girls!
Early doctor a appointment for my increased blood glucose! Ttyl! FF
Yes, Carolyn, I was having one of my dozing nights, and listened to it all on the radio, and some tv at 4am. I heard about it at about 10.30 bedtime, but it didn't sound anything important at that point. All so very sad. The audience were mostly young girls, some only 10 with their mums. I've just read about a homeless man helping a 'little girl' who had lost her legs. He said he often begs in the doorway.
Just sharing here. But from what I've seen and heard people helped and the services were fast and amazing. Good to see the very best in people when needed. I can imagine my little grandaughter wanting to go to something like this in a few years. Just innocent pre-teens. A lot of parents waiting for them outside.
Welcome Stripey, I haven't been a member for lomg but have gained lots of support from this forum.
Carolyn and Natalie, Yes dreadful news and I'm only 15 minutes away. my family and friends are safe and my daughter has struggled into work this morning. Manchester is a strong city and very resiliant. xx