Dear Coco, I am sorry to read your news and I am sure your fellow users will be along very soon with support and advice for you as you have asked, please also remember that our helpliners are on hand with further support, emotional and practical so do call to talk things through on 0808 800 6000, lines are open 9-5 weekdays and 10-2 Saturdays
The following link will take you to the 'BCC secondaries' pages where there is lots of further support ideas and information which I hope you will find helpful:
Hi Tylerrose, (and any others who may be interested)
You might find it helpful to join in our Secondary Live Chat service which runs each Tuesday evening between 8.30 and 9.30 p.m. where you can chat in real time to others who have a secondary diagnosis. The session is hosted by a nurse and a facilitator. I've put the link to the service below if you would like to have a look.