Recovery from mastectomy with reconstruction using tram flap

Hi all , just wondered if anyone is finding the recovery from tram flap Reconstruction a hard and emotional journey ? 

My abdominal wound 5 weeks post surgery is still not healing ! My new breast is doing ok and I am thankful that after three surgeries this year the surgeon has finally managed to get 1 mm clear margins ( I feel this isn’t very big but have been told this is good ) 

my problem is that now I have to start massaging the scar on my breast and every time I do this I cry! I should be happy but it all feels very weird and the scar isn’t flat , there is a dip in my breast where the tram flap was put in ! 

Will I begin to feel happier ? I don’t like to keep bothering my breast care nurses at the hospital, they have enough to do ! 

Hi Pfj0265,

I’m sorry you’re having an emotional time at the moment, hopefully one of our lovely forum members will be along soon to offer their support. You may also like to post in the Ask Our Nurses section where you can get advice from our team of nurses. 

Best wishes,

Helena at Breast Cancer Care