Hi Grunchy , if you post in the surgery section of the forum you will be able to chat to others going through the same thing .I will post you a link .Jill https://forum.breastcancernow.org/t5/Surgery/bd-p/4445
Thanks for your message. It's understandable that you're concerned regarding your surgery. If you'd like to talk things through, our breast care nurses are available Monday to Friday. Call our Helpline on 0808 800 6000, we're open 10am-4pm. You may also want to post a message for other Forum users who are also in the same position.