Eloquently written, ss, but I must take issue with you on a couple of points: 1. 'my cancer isn't a hobby, or an interest' - neither is any of our cancers, except that maybe if we can help someone get through it we will do what we can. 2. 'for some people their illness defines them, it's a badge they're proud to wear..I'll never be proud of having had cancer. It's s**t and i don't want it.' - why would anyone be proud to have had cancer? Nobody I have ever met has been, and none of us 'want' it. Hope this doesn't offend you, because no offence is intended.
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