Hi
I was 55 when I had an immediate TRAM recon in Aug 06. I didn't have any problems and I think it looks great. Hubby said he wasn't bothered but I was and had it for me.
I didn't want to have to look in a mirror and look at me being disfigured, deformed, mutilated - call it what you will. I was not prepared to accept a delayed recon. I know I sound awful. My point is - think hard because it affects how you look forever. There is definitely more scarring with a delayed recon, plus an extra operation and recovery time. If you have the choice, just do it the once.
Marilyn x
Good luck
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