I was diagnose on Nov 9th and like joshina I'm having chemo before surgery. This seems to be the less common route but I had no choice as my tumour at diagnosis was too large to be easily removable with surgery. I'm having 4xFEC followed by 12x weekly Taxol. Surgery will either be between the two types of chemo or after it's all finished depending on the advice of my breast surgeon.
I'd find it hard to make the decision myself as to whether to have chemo or surgery first so I'm glad it was out of my hands. I have two children and no plans for more so fertility wasn't an issue for me (in any case I'm 43 so a bit long in the tooth to go through that again!).
The advantage of chemo first is that it is possible to actually see a response to the chemo which you can't do if the tumour has already been removed. I'm due my 3rd FEC on thursday (7th Jan) and there has already been "significant shrinkage" in the tumour - I was able to feel this for myself even before the 2nd FEC, which was very reassuring. The obvious disadvantage is that the tumour is in your body for longer with the increased risk of the cancer spreading esp if it doesn't respond to chemo.
Given that my tumour was very large then chemo first also has the advantage for me that there is still a slight chance that I may escape a full mastectomy if there is sufficient shrinkage, I'm trying not to get my hopes up as my surgeon was pretty sure that a mastectomy would be needed but it would cetainly be a bonus.
I suspect that if surgery first had been an option for me and fertility was an issue I would probably have gone for surgery first to buy myself more time but it's hard to say for sure. I hope the fertility people can give you some help with your decision as it must be an extremely hard one to make.
My other thought, and I realise that this may be easier to say as someone who already has children, is that I wouldn't want to put myself at any extra risk in order to increase my chance of having children in the future. I say this because, for me, the hardest thing about having bc is the fear that my children (currently age 4 and 2) may have to grow up without their mother. The effect of my diagnosis on them is of far more concern to me than any effect on myself and I will do absolutely anything, no matter how hard, to give the greatest chance of seeing them grow up.
Good luck with your decision and please let us know how you get on.
Linda
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