Yep, choccers has it. It's the way it is delivered that pees us off.
I mean, exercise, yawn, cancer, yawn...it's not exactly new info is it? I think it's the idea that non-cancer (ordinary? lol) people will see it and think I'm some lazy bum that asked for it that annoys me. As it goes I do three miles every day with the dog, but that's neither here nor there. I don't fit ANY of the other criteria for bc either.
I had lunch the other day with a work associate who I'd only ever spoken to online. She knew I had bc. When I met her she said "Oh, I thought you'd be really fat or something, what with having cancer". (Probably one for the 'stupid things people say' thread too). I've never been overweight and even if I had, it doesn't follow that all overweight people are going to get cancer. Clearly though that was her impression.
So then. Following the risk factors, we are all steak-munching, idle, fat, very tall (yes, it's statistically true), have a family history of bc, had no kids until well past the point at which we ought to have done, had periods when we were 9 and menopause at 60. And then there's the wellies, don't forget the wellies (sorry to newish people: in-joke). Put your hand up if you fit the profile.
Bah 😞
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