Hi Carole My brothers are generally pretty good but boy do you have to nudge a man to do - or see - anything! Unfortunately my younger brother lives in the Greater Manchester area which is the centre of a local lockdown/restrictions otherwise he would have been down to visit before now. my elder brother, bless him, seems to think the sole purpose of a visit is to take Mum out for lunch. Which, although very nice and thoughtful, doesn't get the sorting out done! I did leave him a long list of things to do last week which seem to have been done. I have spelt it out in no certain terms that I can't be relied on to help on any given day, whether organised beforehand or not, so they do both know. It's just they live either an hour and a half away or 4 hours away so they can hardly pop in like I can. I'm sure it will be done in time for the actual move, yikes! As to your Mum, the dreaded urine infection! Isn't it odd how it affects the elderly in such a way. In fact I'd heard about it in elderly ladies but only realised it affects elderly men as well when my FIL had one just before he was re-admitted to the care home. Completely off his trolley until the antibiotics kicked in! Good luck to your daughter, I hope she gets accepted as a supply teacher and it's nearby if she does. Nicky x
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