Hi blestg, mum became really I'll on Monday and sadly she passed away last night, I'm absolutely devastated, she decided last Thursday that she didn't want any more chemo because she had been feeling so unwell, the onc agreed, we took her to the hospice on Monday for the day clinic, but she was so I'll they put her straight to bed, they wanted to keep her in but she was adament she wanted to be at home, me and my brothers decided not to have help from carers and to nurse her ourselves because she didn't want strangers washing her and taking her to the toilet, we all three stayed with her all the time, she got so poorly she couldn't even stand, we had to lift her on and off the commode, we all tried to talk her into going in the hospice as we were worried we wouldn't be able to give her the care she needed, but she said she wanted to die at home with her kids with her, the dr prescribed morphine to help with any pain, when she passed we were all holding her and her cat hayley was snuggled up to her, it was very peaceful and she was in no pain, I am going to miss her so much, we were almost joined at the hip, I'm sorry to pour all this out to you but I thought you would want to know, I hope all is going well your end xx
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