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Smudgie31
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17-10-2021
07:52
Hi, Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post. Just a few words can make such a difference. x They have started putting on Saturday clinics and l was lucky to get an appointment. To my utter amazement there is no lump. What l felt was scar tissue from my op. I took myself and family to such as dark place, l am now exhausted and physically and emotionally drained. But well. I am very aware that for others that isn't the case and l never take each day for granted. Thank you and best wishes xxx
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17-10-2021
07:51
Hi Cathy, Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post. Just a few words can make such a difference. x They have started putting on Saturday clinics and l was lucky to get an appointment. To my utter amazement there is no lump. What l felt was scar tissue from my op. I took myself and family to such as dark place, l am now exhausted and physically and emotionally drained. But well. I am very aware that for others that isn't the case and l never take each day for granted. Thank you and best wishes xxx
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17-10-2021
07:50
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Hi RubyJane, Thank you for taking the time to reply to my post. Just a few words can make such a difference. x They have started putting on Saturday clinics and l was lucky to get an appointment. To my utter amazement there is no lump. What l felt was scar tissue from my op. I took myself and family to such as dark place, l am now exhausted and physically and emotionally drained. But well. I am very aware that for others that isn't the case and l never take each day for granted. Thank you and best wishes xxx
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14-10-2021
06:12
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It's been 5 years since my mastectomy. I've just found a lump in my other breast and am now waiting for my scan (within 2 weeks). I'm looking for support to help cope as well as recommendations on what anti anxiety drugs l might be able to take in order to help cope. I am a complete wreak. Constantly crying and trying to hide it from the kids (for now). Back aches, stomach is tense, experiend bleeding as a result. My thoughts are all negative. Xxx
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19-12-2019
05:15
Hi I drink OMG green tea. Wouldn't drink any other green tea. Check them out. Jen
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01-11-2019
07:18
Hi Leonie68, Sorry for the late reply, only just logged into my account after sometime. I'm used to my implant now. Still waiting for a breast lift on my left side and nipple put on left. Glad l had it done. Hope all is good with you. X
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16-05-2019
12:59
Hi Ladies, It's been a few years since my surgery/treatment but I seem to be suffering from really blotchy sensitive skin on my cheeks. I have worked out this seems to be due to the pool water in my local swimming pool. I have tried a few things - Vaseline, washing my face before and straight after swimming but I'm still suffering from it and its getting me down. The doctor gave me hydrocortisone cream and this helps but hasn't eradicate it. I was wondering if anyone else suffers from this? Thanks
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16-04-2019
08:51
Hi I've been on the usual websites, Nicola Jane, Amoena etc. but can anyone recommend any others? I've had reconstructive surgery but would still like a costume that isn't too low but is stylish. Thanks
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01-02-2019
11:30
Hi Ana1 Nice to hear from you. Yes I've had my reconstruction. It's been 3 months now. I went through the usual rollercoaster of emotions. I didn't really appreciate what an amazing job my surgeon had done till about 2 weeks after. I'm a C cup so not a large lady, so when l looked in the mirror l just saw a small rounded lump which is a lot higher than my remaining boob due to the implant procedure. However by week 3 l realised what an incredible and wonderous thing l had been given. In the right bra you really wouldn't know what I'd been through. Yes l look odd without my bra and can't wait to get back in for a lift in another few months. I am glad l went through with the op. I just take it for granted when l put my bra on without my prosthesis now. For me, recovery was quick; but the first week was tough going. No l didn't contact Someone Like Me. To be honest l can't remember seeing Dee's post unfortunately. In hindsight l wish l had done more research on the final results before l went in. Wishing you all the best with your surgery. Xx
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28-11-2018
04:47
Oooh how fantastic Sarah24. I hope you continue to do more amazing trips. X
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19-11-2018
06:26
Hi Linda17. It's day six and my emotions (although still all over the place) are a little less in shock! I've been to the dressing clinic today and they agreed l should have been given more info before discharging me. However they were still unable to tell me if l should wear my sports bra 24/7 or whether l should do some simple arm exercises. Got an appointment with my specialist on Thursday. I'm trying to do VERY light shoulder rolls and lifts as I'm holding myself quite stiffly which is uncomfortable. Body trying to protect itself l guess. My current issue is trying to get used to the feeling of the implant . I'm hoping this will improve in time as it's a feeling l don't like! Glad to hear you're doing well. X
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17-11-2018
03:33
Hi Poppy3. Thanks for getting in touch. I was happyish to stay how l was but every other lady I've spoken to about reconstruction hasn't regretted the decision so wanted to go ahead (Although all tummy flap). It's only day 4, but things on my mind are. Don't like the feel of the implant. How l feel it when l try and get comfortable in bed. I'm not sure if l should wear my sports bra while in bed. I have a few from quite tight ones to just support vests. Not sure which is best. Finding them all uncomfortable but not sure if the implant needs the support and tight is best. My new breast looks small. Part of me wonders why l bothered. Although l know it's early days and l haven't really looked and compared with other (surgeon was pleased). Should l start some little physio shoulder rolls yet? Just a bit physically and emotionally messed up at the moment but l know things will improve and I'm being far too impatient! Xx
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17-11-2018
11:03
Hi. I've just had breast reconstruction surgery. I'm looking for ladies l can chat with for some extra support that have had the black flap and implant procedure. Very emotional and am unsure if I've done the right thing. X
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13-10-2018
12:10
Sounds fantastic Riversidedawn. I'm loving my challenges/new experiences. I'm always on the look out for new ones. Xx
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24-09-2018
06:27
Hi. I'm having LX and implants. My mastectomy was in 2016. My initial shock of seeing the surgery date in black n white is subsidising a little. However l think my anxiety is being projected to my good breast. Keep thinking something isn't right even though l check regularly and still have regular mammograms.
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20-09-2018
06:30
Hello ladies. I've just got my date for reconstruction surgery. Other ladies I've talked to have all welcomed the news but I'm not sure how l feel. I think l want to go through with it but lt's triggered feelings of vulnerability. Part of me feels l should be grateful to be here and why make life more complicated. But l've not met one lady who has regretted their surgery (met some who didn't want it). The negative thoughts are creeping in. 'What's the point if it comes back ' Will l feel it was worth it?' 'It's making my kids scared Etc. Just feel l need to tell you guys how l feel.x
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20-09-2018
09:17
Hi. Since my diagnosis, I've wanted to 'do things.' Things I've not done before. Challenges. Is anyone else doing the same? Are there any forums/suggestions for making opportunities happen? Things that others have done and recommendations for clubs willing to offer taster sessions? #seizetheday xx
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08-06-2018
06:34
Hi. Is anyone suffering with bad skin since taking Tamoxifen? I've been on it for over a year now. My skin was great after chemo but now it's blotchy and dry. I use organic products and eat well, so l can only think it's my medication.
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04-06-2018
10:15
Hi. Is anyone suffering with bad skin since taking Tamoxifen? I've been on it for over a year now. My skin was great after chemo but now it's blotchy and dry. I use organic products and eat well, so l can only think it's my medication.
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