Hi Helen Anniversary dates are always a horrible reminder of how we felt when we were diagnosed I still remember mine vividly and that feeling of a death sentence being passed - no matter what the consultant said, I was convinced that my number was up! Now, I look back and realise the fear was caused by a lack of knowledge and not knowing anyone who was in the same situation as me. I’m one of those people who has to know everything possible, I research, I look for positives, I try to negate the bad bits and look for ways where I can deal with/minimise the side effects. Every day you’ll feel better and your strength and energy will return. It’s such a great feeling when you wake up and don’t think or feel the effects of cancer. As Anxious Soul has said, be gentle with yourself. There is no rush with this journey, and if you have to take things at a slower pace - or even find an alternative way to do things - then please do. We can all be a bit too hard on ourselves instead of allowing ourselves the time and patience we need. Keep us updated with your progress, it’s always great to hear how others are doing. Have a wee hug from me! xxx
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