Hi everyone, don't really know where to start really, I was diagnosed January 2017 with IDC! I've had 2 surgeries, lumpectomy then mastectomy, had 6rounds of chemo and now on tamoxifen. I've been married 32yrs! With two wonderful grown up children. My relationship with my husband is the issue at the moment, he's a lovely guy, but at times isn't the easiest to live with, he moans a lot about stuff, complaining about everything! Don't get me wrong, when I was diagnosed and going through chemo, he was marvellous!! Truly looked after me and never complained about anything, I've always been the type that likes to keep the peace, so I usually just keep my mouth shut when he's on one, recently though I've been getting really cross at him! I'll remind him, he should have nothing to moan about, I've just had bloody cancer!! I'm trying to get my life back together and move on, he should be grateful for his health. Basically the bottom line is, I'm speaking back now, as I know how precious life is and I really don't need all his silly complaints! My kids bless them, love him to bits, but even they know what a grump he is! My main worry though is he's gone part time now with work, so he'll be around more at home, I've not gone back to work since my cancer, the job was quite stressful, not sure yet what my future plans will be. I just don't want this resentment towards my husband get any worse.
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