I'm still not sure if my returned TNBC is a recurrence or a secondary, and does that make any difference when it's now in the skin/chest wall? I was feeling okayish about it all until I returned home yesterday to read the copy of the letter from the onc appt 3 weeks ago, which I really don't think I was told all that the letter says I was told, some of it may have been alluded to but I don't think it was actually said, I'll ask my husband to read it later as he came with me to the appointment For now I take comfort that after a cycle of capecitabine it feels no worse, if anything it feels a bit better I'd like to think that I could change my outcome by boosting my immune system but think the oncologists are chemical people and not at all holisitc, my little girl is only 4, I just want her to have a mummy for a lot longer
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