Hi scrummy I have a similar diagnosis to you - diagnosed 2 years ago. It is completely overwhelming being given that diagnosis and also having to deal with the chest drain. Give yourself time to adjust and try not to think ahead - I could only think a few weeks ahead initially now I do make plans in 3 months stages (around scans!). How long have you had your drain fitted? Have you or someone in your family/friend been taught how to care for the drain I found once my husband and I took care of the drain ourselves I felt more in control and gained confidence and freedom which allowed me to enjoy lots of holiday's abroad. What treatment are you on chemotherapy and hormone trestment (if you are hormone positive ) can help dry up the fluid so you may find you won't need to drain as often I went down to once a week which is more manageable. 10 months after having my drain I felt well enough to return to work.. I did used to hate doing the drain as it made me feel an invalid but once it was done in would get on with my thing and forget about it and it soon just became part of my daily routine you learn to find a new norm - that being said it is so hard letting go of some of the old. I had the drain for 18 months. Make nice little plans like going for coffee with friends so you have things to look forward to may help. Hugs Sarah x
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