Hi there not quite the same but I have a similar experience but my eldest brother. Mark had a vicious melanoma, I think I have that right. It was virtually untreatable. He was only given 8 weeks from diagnosis, he lasted 7. He lived in Scotland & his wife found a great Care home for him. We all took 1 day at a time and tried to keep things as normal as possible but it was impossible to do this all the time. The one one thing we took from it all was that there was no right or wrong way of dealing with the situation. Nothing can prepare you for it. We took in old photographs, talked about all the good times, sat and watched TV with him. My wife is also fighting her own battle with secondary breast cancer which is in her liver & spine. It has changed our relationship but I’m determined that it’s not going to tear us apart.
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