Hi Thanks for the replies ladies. I ended up going out but was quite nervous, couldn’t believe it. Last Monday was the day before my surgery and I swam 40 lengths, cleaned the house, picked up my mum from the train station 17 miles away and went out for lunch. A week later and I’m worried about going to a couple of local shops 😂 . I wouldn’t have managed walking to them all so drove instead. By the time I got back to the house I was sweating and took your advice Quaggie, I had to go for a wee rest, but I did feel accomplished. Isn’t it strange how much cancer changes things, and so quickly too? Got the guy in the supermarket to pack my bag for me, felt embarrassed doing so though so explained I’d had surgery and had to be careful. I was so aware of anyone coming near me in case of a collision too. Quaggie, got my appointment through today for my pathology results, it’s Monday 10th September. Been faithfully doing my arm exercises too, I feel they make a difference to my range of movement. I’m sorry to hear you’ve had to have a second surgery, I hope you’re doing okay recovery-wise. Wombatwoo, it’s great to hear your experience a couple of weeks further along, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I think what you said about listening to your body is vital - I have always moved at a million miles an hour but getting cancer has made me slow down and listen to my body. In the early days after diagnosis it meant allowing myself to be sad and cry and having a jammie day if I needed to, and not scold myself about it. And it’s equally applicable now when I need rest and recuperation. ElliesMum, I like your idea of easing into things, very much my style at the moment 😊 . I have a history of rushing into doing too much too soon and then suffering the consequences (after childbirth and previous BBR) but I think getting back into it slowly is defo the order of the day. I hope you enjoy a steady recovery too. Thanks again for your wisdom ladies, lovely to chat although under sucky circumstances, Nic xx
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