Breast Cancer Now Forum

I’m glad this may have given you encouragement.  I was so fortunate in my own friends and family who surrounded me with so much love and support. My breast care nurses were also a tremendous help. I am now two years on and I feel that I have been truly blessed. I walk every day. Go weekly to Tai Chi and have just joined a singing for fun group. Staying positive and making the most of every day is a big part of beating the big C. keep in touch and let me know how your friend is getting on. Xxx ... View more

Hi It’s me again! I have seen my Lymphoedema Physio who gave me a fact sheet on the operation.  It’s not currently available on the NHS but trials are ongoing in Swansea funded by the Welsh Government. The results of the first trial are encouraging and they have applied for further funding to continue the trial. If I’m accepted I’ll keep you updated !!! Midgemac ... View more

Hi Em I often find that if I start the conversation with my own worries about the cancer (in your case your step mum’s) It opens up the topic but concentrates it on your worries rather than your step brother’s. It is so easy for it to become “the elephant in the room” with everyone skirting around the subject. This should help him to speak about his own concerns. Love Midgemac ... View more

Hi Sami When I had my lymph nodes removed my breast care nurse gave me a small shoulder bag to support the bag attached to the drainage tube. This allowed me to move around freely and I was able to hook it on to my nightstand at night to prevent it pulling in the night. The bags are supplied by our local W.I.   While in for Radiotherapy I came across this engraving on a sun dial - “Turn to face the sun and the dark clouds will fall behind you !” I have tried to make this my mantra in dealing with my treatment. Perhaps you can pass this on along with my prayers for your friend. Midgemac. Xx ... View more