Sadly it’s pot luck. I assumed it was a bit of an exaggeration by both my oncologist and adjuvant nurse. I was wrong! I developed a simple runny nose on Saturday. By evening, my temperature was 37.7 but I felt fine. My husband insisted I rang for advice. Within an hour, I was in hospital, temperature 38.8, blood pressure in the red zone (dangerously low), fever, rigor (uncontrollable shaking) and I still only had a runny nose. I spent 3 days in ‘isolation’ in the oncology assessment unit, permanently attached to an antibiotic drip, with my temperature and blood pressure fluctuating, yet all tests revealed no obvious source of infection. And I felt fine, apart from weak. I ate more during this time than I have in weeks. Day 4 I was moved from oncology to a side room off the breast care unit and given a couple of blood transfusions. I was allowed home yesterday evening and still have my runny nose - but I have antibiotics, antiviral tablets (I have developed a cold sore) and more to add to my armoury. I have my clinic appointment tomorrow, ready to start phase 2 of my chemo. I’m hoping the weekly treatment won’t hit me as hard as the 3-weekly EC. It must be very hard for you both, given your daughter’s health problems - but that works to your advantage in a way. You are vigilant, unlike me who was naive. I don’t remember when I last had a cold! The germs are there and virtually unavoidable. The determining factor is her blood count at that particular time. I know it’s easily said but really there is no point wasting energy worrying about the what ifs. There’s a fine line between sensible precautions and obsession. Try not to obsess about what might happen - but might not. I have to say my husband was right but his constant ‘watching’ me and pointed questions don’t help. I know it’s because he’s fearful for me but it’s hard enough dealing with myself at the moment, without having to worry about him too. We know exactly what to look out for and the need for immediate action IF there is a spike in temperature. It isn’t an exaggeration to say every hour counts at that stage. Better to waste the hospital’s time than take any chances. I’ve learnt that I mustn’t decide for myself. I have to follow their rules - they know their business and I don’t know my body any more! But I hope I can reassure you that, if it happens, treatment is quick and effective, even when they can’t identify the cause, as in my case.
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