Hi, I really admire your tenacity and courage, but a couple of thoughts on what you asked. Your body has been through a lot and I'd suggest you need to watch you aren't pushing yourself too hard. The rads are killing good cells in your body, as well as any stray cancer cells, so you'll not have the normal physical reserves and you are possibly 'running on adrenalin'. Also,you are covered by the Disability Discrimination Act, so you have rights, work-wise. Your boss sounds very empathetic and supportive and possibly is concerned you are pushing yourself too hard, so rather than be seen to be 'trying to prove a point' maybe you should accept what help he is offering? He may also be concerned that you could take ill at work, pass out or such like, which wouldn't be a good thing for you, or him. Also, just bear in mind if you gave the impression of being stubborn, inflexible or irresponsible, it could actually go against you, more than accepting the help he's offered. I'd say give him a bell and have a candid chat to come to a compromise. I'd also add that if your rads team have shown any concern, rather than passing surprise, that you are working, you should heed that they have broached the subject with you. as chances are they are discretely monitoring your general health and well-being, not just your boob. All this said, a lot possibly hangs on how you feel emotionally; if you are coping that's great, but you need to be honest with yourself. That's not giving in, it's just being pragmatic. Hug, Wonky
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