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Wonky
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2 weeks ago
Hello Grumpy, so your Joey is all spruced up; he'll be flirting with girls again lol. Do you mean actually gravy? My two moggies are doing fine also, they are great company and a comfort. Keep well, stay safe. Big hug Wonks
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3 weeks ago
Hi Allyson, I had lumpectomy and some nodes out then rads. I'm still tender. Not to extent of using pain killers but it's noticeable and constant. Mentioned to breast nurse yesterday and she said it can be the case to have discomfort for 12 months from operation. But to book appointment to be checked if goes past 12 months. There's no sign of infection, so I guess for me it's just trauma to the tissue and patience is a virtue.
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3 weeks ago
Hi Kit Kat, you'll see posts 'crossed in the post' and I've decided against. I'm so sorry to read you dealing with the 'shot through nerves' - don't we all know that awful place to be. Stay safe, sane and be kind to yourself Kit Kat. Keep posting if it helps. Hug to you and all. Wonky X
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3 weeks ago
Jaybro, as always great support and sense. After posting I wound myself down with a bit of gardening and worked out I'm not ready and have cancelled. I know you won't misunderstand where I'm coming from ...the last thing the NHS super hero's need on their hands is a patient who panics to the point of passing out with fear. And not safe to drive for same reason!
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3 weeks ago
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Hi, I was diagnosed exactly a year ago, to the day. Had phone call today to say to come into hospital for mammogram next Tuesday. When I say 'in' specifically a mobile testing unit, which is a confined space. Told staff will be in full PPE. That's good but shows the level of risk. My question is, which is the biggest risk - delaying the mamo ( my BC was "highly aggressive"), or risk Covid? Particularly freaked out that they rang bang on the anniversary, as though it is important to get another look at me asap. As old posts show I panic every time I have to go for treatment/ tests ( I'm frightened of hospitals) beginning to wonder if going to the appt will set me back mentally too. Plus I'm not allowed to bring anyone with me and I've no idea what state I'll be in and as driving myself can't take a sedative. Advice ladies please. X
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4 weeks ago
Hi Ladies, this is more about Covid, than cancer and not really a category on here it fits into, but here goes: Covid has unearthed a lot of domestic abuse, so I assume women's refuges are under pressure. My question is, does anyone know of charities running refuges who would like donations of UNUSED cosmetics and toiletries? Thank you.
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27-04-2020
06:15
Oh my, you have your hands full Grumpy. But glad your message was upbeat, overall. Little to report here. My young cat is in overdrive on fur growth, and not taking kindly to me combing him for too long. He tolerates a bit at a time and that produces handfuls of fluff in itself. He is so quick to protest, my hands are not exactly looking pretty as scratches. Got 'long hair cat shampoo' from Amazon today but it's from Germany, so that will be interesting. Give Joey a pat for me. Wonks X
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25-04-2020
10:13
Hi Delly. The Wonks and the furry-wonklets are all fine thanks. Hope you are too. Stay safe. X
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23-04-2020
09:38
Absolutely pets are good company! I have a wee friend, a stray cat which I'm feeding. Pure black. V shaped chunk missing from one ear ( doesn't need a vet thankfully) so if he becomes part of the Wonky Family, he will be called Snip. Keep on trucking Grumps. Love Wonks x
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21-04-2020
08:48
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Hi Marla, no need to apologise my lovely! If you fancy a natter, PM me. Hugs, Wonky
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28-03-2020
10:59
Hi Grumps. But aren't pets a comfort in these strange times. I'm chilling here with 'diva cats'......they haven't quite grasped Dreamies are on ration. Lol. You doing OK hun?
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26-03-2020
03:10
You're welcome, I hope you have healed well and are managing OK as regards the Covid19 situation.
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11-03-2020
08:07
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Hey LIFL, It particularly saddens me that perhaps 'something is missing' when nurses post on here. Such immense respect for you all; will always remember Liz, who was there to keep me ticking over through the night, after my op. I am sad to read your post. Cancer is Cancer and the impact is immense. (With respect) No one deserves less than a helpful and supportive manager. Majority of ladies on here abhor 'the pecking order nonsense' which is seemingly purely down to ignorance. I kept my hair, but people seem equally fascinated with the fact that I did, than that I didn't. I may one day need to be reprimanded by a handsome police officer (lol) if one more " you look so well" tips me over the edge', when I am feeling less than "well". Totally get what you are saying. Hug. X
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06-03-2020
08:46
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Sunflower 14, thank you for discussing this. It's a minefield, on top of what we have already had to deal with. Majority are very supportive, but for me it is dealing with the minority which is in danger of wearing me out. It's so hard to explain. I get questions like "are you still getting treatment". I try to answer that in all truth that the brunt of treatment is, yes, over but I'm still 'on the books at hospital' aka no ticket to paradise just yet. And years and years of Tam (which is driving me potty). Truthfully I find being frank works best with most, but it's still hard getting yourself back to normality. Its simply a weird thing, reintegrating into work after a prolonged absence.
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04-03-2020
07:52
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I have pushed myself and patiently explained, but the bottom line is there is far too much ignorance and insensitivity towards BC in 'the work place'. The attitudes of some simply take my breath away. I think I would prefer to live on beans on toast than endure the hypocritical attitude. Has anyone else on here taken the plunge to wave goodbye to work? I'm after girls on their tod views, point being scary decision without backup (second income etc).
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