Breast Cancer Now Forum

Hey Jaybro, I'm always here for you. PM me!  You have been a stalwart on here girl! Ladies...,..  ... View more

Thanks so much. These clips seem to be something which is a bit of a secret. Would like to understand more, before I brave an airport!  ... View more

Hi Tansy, although the whole 'kit n caboodle' is scarey, if your onc has prescribed rads, you must give them a go. Ages since I posted on this thread, but four weeks ago, I was glad I went through the rads as was told nothing "worrying" to be seen anymore in the boob. That news convinced me that all the worry and putting up with the side-effects of the treatment was worth it in the long run.  Hope this helps a little. Wonky  ... View more

The ladies on here have a wealth of advice, support and love to give which hopefully makes a difference.  Agree that your priorities should be quality (no roughly sewn seams) pure cotton PJs, and baby-wipes . You will probably feel physically better sooner than you think, I get your tizz, I too thought I would be struggling to manage.  Emotionally prepare yourself hun, books, movies, favourite snacks and such, rest & recuperation is the name of the game and far more important than  fuzzy armpits.  I found baths easier than showers - waist downwards all as normal. Waist upwards gently does it for first few days. Thereafter popped a drop of dettol into bath water to keep wounds clean and kept with nurse advice as regards no highly perfumed products - I bought Johnsons Baby stuff. Wishing you all the best Y -: as hard as it may seem, it'll be easier than you think. A Wonky hug X    ... View more

Hi , hope all fellow pets lovers here are doing OK. I'm thinking of adding to the Wonky household - reckon can squeeze a wee fur baby of some sort in.  ... View more

Tizz thee not! It will be fine. Is it before the op, or after the op which is bothering you?  ... View more

Thanks mpnewcastle, I appreciate your honesty. I am more inclined towards resuming my BC plan than letting C19 influence, from when I posted this originally. Hope you are doing well. ... View more

Hey Daylight, good to hear from you and great you have the strength to post. If you need a 'Crazy Cat Lady' you've found one hun. Sorry to read how tough you are getting it. Sorry, no pics simply because I'm useless with technology. But just try to picture two 'pure markings' tabby's. That's what I ended up with - accident, not design. Now, far more importantly, hope you are indulging yourself a little bit ....... what names might you fancy for a wee fluffy pal? I have a colleague who has a link to a 'cat cam' in the USA - it's pretty amazing; if you like I can ask her how you join in. It's great fun, from the stills she shares, she calls all the cats Floofs. Big hug, keep talking, lots of people on here, you aren't alone.  Wonky x  ... View more

Joby, You are doing great, as hard as it seems you are on the right side of the mountain. Treat yourself well, and treat yourself to whatever you might fancy.  It is lonley, but there is always someone around on this forum, for empathy and support. Hug. Wonky X ... View more

Nicmic, respect to you plus a big virtual hug. Hope you are loving your new home and getting lots of rest and relaxation. Wonky x ... View more

Daylight, Well done for sharing what are still raw and painful memories. I'm sorry ( VERY) I didn't reply to your first post; that was because I couldn't decipher it (like Delly has). I think it's great you have room in your heart to consider a new wee buddy. Totally know only you can say for sure if and when. Personally I'd have a house full of mogs but not sure the neighbours would be keen and I'm considered a bit 'nutty' already as it is without becoming the epitome of "mad cat woman". Plus the bill for the Dreamies already..... LOL=laugh out loud + LOL = lots of love, to all. Take care Daylight and keep posting if it helps. Wonks.  ... View more

Lovely Ladies, I hope you are all managing OK. We've tackled bleepy breast cancer, we have tackled Covid. We are made of pretty sturdy stuff. Goodness knows how many little fluff-cadets, need a loving home these days, if you can convince yourself to think about tackling a wee waif&stray, maybe, just maybe that is another notch on our collective bow. My two: Miss Toots remains a crabby old lady, still loves occasional chance at licking out a yogurt pot. She can detect the smell of yoghurt from a mile away. She's safe and content and I love her for what she is. On the other end of the personality spectrum is the big bruiser, Beeps, who is as gentle, daft and affectionate as can be. As posted before, without him I don't think I could have coped. He's in robust health again and my only complaint is when he hears my alarm clock go off, he goes into mega purr/snuggle mode and aI end up hitting the snooze button maybe too many times. And thanking the stars that Dreamies have been obtainable throughout lockdown. Stay safe and sane all. Wonks.    ... View more

So sorry to read that Daylight. Are you bearing up OK? X ... View more

Hello Grumpy, so your Joey is all spruced up; he'll be flirting with girls again lol. Do you mean actually gravy? My two moggies are doing fine also, they are great company and a comfort. Keep well, stay safe. Big hug Wonks ... View more

Hi Allyson, I had lumpectomy and some nodes out then rads. I'm still tender. Not to extent of using pain killers but it's noticeable and constant. Mentioned to breast nurse yesterday and she said it can be the case to have discomfort for 12 months from operation. But to book appointment to be checked if goes past 12 months. There's no sign of infection, so I guess for me it's just trauma to the tissue and patience is a virtue.  ... View more

Hi Kit Kat, you'll see posts 'crossed in the post' and I've decided against. I'm so sorry to read you dealing with the 'shot through nerves' - don't we all know that awful place to be. Stay safe, sane and be kind to yourself Kit Kat. Keep posting if it helps. Hug to you and all. Wonky X ... View more

Jaybro, as always great support and sense. After posting I wound myself down with a bit of gardening and worked out I'm not ready and have cancelled. I know you won't misunderstand where I'm coming from ...the last thing the NHS super hero's need on their hands is a patient who panics to the point of passing out with fear. And not safe to drive for same reason!  ... View more