Breast Cancer Care Forum

Hi Ladies, I had a lumpectomy on the 16th Jan, have just started on Letrozole and radiotherapy will be starting in March, what a crazy time! I am trying to stay positive and know that other ladies have been through and are going through so much worse. I just wanted to add that I also feel different in my outlook on life and myself, I have received gifts, cards, flowers from all sorts of people who truly care about me, its very touching.. I've found that I have taken a step back from my usual frantic life and began to appreciate the small things in life that mean so much, time with family, headspace, my own wellbeing etc. It seems a shame that it takes something like this to be able to look at things differently but then again it is a positive thing.. Today I'm going to do a face mask, hair mask and have a lovely soak in the bath while the wind and rain howl outside and just breathe... Positive thinking to all the brave ladies out there. Tx ... View more

Hi, The brand is Cipla, only my second tonight so we'll see how I get on, fingers crossed! I was taking to a friend of mine today who has been on the same and hasn't really suffered at all so it all depends I guess. Tx ... View more

Hi ladies, I started on Letrozole yesterday, I had a lumpectomy on the 16th January and am ER positive, HER2 negative, grade 1 tubular breast cancer.  Radiotherapy will start prob beginning of March for me. I'm feeling quite energetic at the moment but realise I'm only half way through treatment so I do need to pace myself. Dreading any side effects of Letrozole, how long does it usually take? I know its different for everyone so just an idea would help. I'm also taking mine in the evening before bed. Tx ... View more

Hi Philippa, Good news at the hospital yesterday, lymph nodes and margins clear and wounds healing nicely, I feel so relieved as I was getting in a real state. I have an app on Wed to plan radiotherapy and hormone therapy. I feel very lucky that my cancer was grade 1 and detected early and so the prognosis is very good, there are lots of ladies who have gone through and are going through so much worse, you included. I do hope you are doing ok. Tx ... View more

Hi Sandpiper, Good news at my hospital app yesterday, lymph nodes and margins clear and wounds healing nicely. I have an app on Wed to plan radiotherapy and hormone treatment... so I am feeling very relieved as I was getting myself in such a state. I have a nice massage planned for Monday at my local cancer charity centre so Im really looking forward to that. Hope things are ok with you. Tx ... View more

Hi Pjf0265, I have my post op app later today so hoping pathology results will be ok.  I do feel a lot better in as far as body aches and pains go but struggling abit emotionally. Hope you are doing ok. Tx ... View more

Hi Sandpiper, I know, a lot for me to deal with, but I think these things make you stronger and able to deal with whatever life throws at you.  Yes of course I wish things were different but they're not.... I'm just wanting Friday to come now so I can find out my pathology results and discuss treatment going forward. I don't have a Maggies centre near me, I've just checked, the nearest one is in Oldham and thats about 40 miles away.  There is a cancer charity close to me though where I have been for massage, they do a group too so I'll check that out when I next go. Tx ... View more

Hi Sandpiper, I agree, it does depend on what's going on in one's life as well as dealing with the diagnosis of breast cancer.  The last few years I have also suffered with PTSD and depression and felt like I was making real progress and then this came along.  I'm sure I am not alone though and people are dealing with all sorts of things and that is a comfort. As you said to me, Summertime I will be finished with treatment and hopefully this will be behind me. It sounds like you are doing great! Tx ... View more

I've always been able to climb mountains but finding this one very difficult xx Thankyou for sharing  ... View more

Hi Sandpiper, Thankyou for sharing that, I hope you are feeling well now and back to normal, so to speak! I suppose that most of this year for me is going to be challenging and I just need to accept that and be kind to myself. T x ... View more

Hi Wonky, Thankyou, it helps to feel that I'm not alone and I'm getting lots of support on here, its a lifesaver!   T xx ... View more

Hi Wonky, Thank you for your message and your words. All makes sense and I guess because this is something I have never experienced before, I just have to listen to my body and my mind really and give myself a break.  The next few months are going to be an emotional rollercoaster I know.  I lost my dear mum a few months ago too so its like a double wammy for me. I hope you are ok and coping with your diagnosis/treatment.   T x ... View more

Hi Sandpiper, Thankyou for your message, I appreciate that. As you say its only 2 weeks since my surgery, but I think I've been feeling abit numb with it all to be honest, everyone keeps saying to me I'm doing so well and being so positive.  I think its probably all just sinking in and last night I couldn't get to sleep and had a really good cry, I just felt very alone with it. I'm sure there will be good days and bad days though. When will you be starting your treatment? Hope you are coping with things and feeling positive. T x ... View more

Hi there, I too was diagnosed with primary breast cancer just before Christmas and also was surrounded by family but still felt very alone.  I had a lumpectomy on the 16th January and I have my post op appointment on the 7th February to find out pathology results.  I am feeling positive all with be ok but am expecting to have radiotherapy and hormone therapy as I am ER positive, HER 2 negative. I'm just having a bit of a low day where I am feeling exhausted, I had a walk out to the local post office, about 5 minutes away and had to lie down when I got back. I feel like I'm never going to feel like my old self again.   Anyone else feel like this? T x ... View more

Hi, Thankyou for sharing that, I have been told mine is grade 1 so I think the prognosis is very good.  I am glad that things are ok for you though, you must have had a tough time but having support from family and friends is so important, I also have lots of support, apart from my dear mum who passed away a few months ago. Thank you for your support, means alot, take care and its good to know I can message you xx ... View more

Hi, Thank you for your reply so quickly, I appreciate that. Yes, that is what I am having the radiation dye the day before. Was your tumour bigger than 5mm? Are you having radiotherapy yet and how are you recovering, I hope things are ok after your second surgery. Sending hugs xx ... View more

Hi there, I've just seen your post and wanted to get in contact.  I was diagnosed with tubular breast cancer 5mm on the 18th Dec, I am due for surgery on the 16th Jan and am starting to feel quite anxious about it.  I am having a lumpectomy and then radiotherapy but during surgery my lymph nodes will be looked at to see if there is anything suspicious there, is that what happened with you?  I cant feel any lumps and nothing was picked up on my recent mammogram but I am still worrying.  I'm really trying to keep positive but still trying to get my head round it all. I hope to hear from you and I hope you are doing well after your surgery x ... View more

Hi Jan, Many thanks for your reply, it feels good to know there are women out there knowing exactly the feelings and anxiety this causes, I’m so glad I reached out. Thankyou for your advice I really do appreciate it and also for the Google comment, I will stay well away from that and stick with my healthcare team ... I’ll know abit more after tomorrow’s app so trying to stay calm today and spend time with my family... I hope you are finding the strength to get through your own experiences. With kindest regards Tracy ... View more